Effie Darlene Barba

What really is long suffering patience in the face of conflict?  When the road gets tough or conflict arises, a part of me wants to run, to hide, or to avoid the person.  Yet, that is not the fruit of the spirit referred to in Galatians 5:23.  After all, if God had justly turned His back upon me in my rebellion, I could never know His Grace.  It has been with everlasting patience that He persisted forward in the face of Conflict.  Patience in the face of conflict presses forward much like the oxen ploughing the rough and stony field.  Tethered with a yoke upon his back, he presses forward until the work is done.

When I refuse to face the trials or conflict, they grow within me until frustration overtakes my heart.  Thusly, it destroys true love, joy, and peace.  The task must be completed—pressing steadily patiently forward.  Never looking to the right or left, the oxen must press forward.  And so, do we.  Not taking our eyes off the goal, we press steadily forward.  Nor are we to allow anger or selfish desires to enter in.  We must allows be reminded of God’s patient steady love that deals with our rebellious hearts and emulate that kind of patience.

Isaiah 50:4-9

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Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God (Matthew 5:9). The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance (Galatians 5:23).  In the last post, I wrote regarding our position as believers, resting in the truth of knowing peace with God.  The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God (Romans 8:16). Therefore, as His child, I must take on characteristics so that I may look like Him.  God is a God of Peace, Righteousness, Justice, Grace, Mercy, and Love.  When I in my speech or actions fail to represent my Father, I bring shame to His name. The Beatitudes are like large spikes piercing this sometimes-rebellious heart.  There are moments when I throw off the righteous robes I so graciously have been given, revealing the filthy rags of my own heart.

Yesterday was such a day.  I could say that it was a righteous indignation that began the downfall.  However, that is the excuse we Christians feebly give for our own anger or lack of grace.  Once allowing those thoughts to enter, they grew much like a rapid growing cancer.  I could say the stress of everything overwhelmed me.  After all I am about to make a major move.  I worked very diligently to have everything in place before I left.  Yet, bureaucracy moves slowly and hence I fear for those I have for 5 years overseen and protected with a mothering love, until my replacement begins.  But if I have allowed fear in, have I not pushed aside faith? For it has not been I who protected them these 5 years, it has been God and He will continue to do so.

One Failed Peacemaker

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In a world filled with derision, wars, and division, how can we speak of peace.  Yet, the third fruit of the Spirit we are told is peace.  “And the peace of God, which passeth understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:7). How? Note it says, this is a peace that passeth understanding.  One that quiets the restless soul and comforts us amid the chaos of our lives.  It begins with knowing Jesus Christ and His Love which reached forth to us, even when our hearts were at enmity with Him.  He loved us first, before our selfish hearts could love Him.  Forgiven, I find peace with God.  As His Beloved, Redeemed Child, my heart discovers joy in Him as my greatest treasure.  Then each step of this journey, He teaches me how to trust Him more. Therein, I know peace, even when chaos surrounds me.

Horatio Gates Spafford had learned of this peace which overtakes the soul in the hardest of times.  Like a river of God’s Grace flooding one’s heart and mind pushing aside the desert of pain and sorrow.  He had lost everything financially in the great Chicago fire. That same year, their son had died of pneumonia. Two years later, he planned a family vacation to England. Due to business meetings, he sent them ahead.  He planned to join them.  The ship carrying his wife and four daughters went down.  Only his wife survived the shipwreck.  As he crossed the Atlantic to join his wife, he wrote these words. “When peace like a river attendeth my way. When sorrows like sea billows roll. Whatever my lot, thou hast taught me to say, ‘It is well, it is well with my soul.’”

Peace that Passeth Understanding

How with such tragedy and loss could Mr. Spafford write of peace? The key is found in the remaining verses-it is Jesus Christ.  For in Christ, we know that this world is not our destination.  Read on:

Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come,
Let this blest assurance control,
That Christ hath regarded my helpless estate,
And hath shed His own blood for my soul.

My sin—oh, the bliss of this glorious thought!
My sin, not in part but the whole,
Is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more,
Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul!

For me, be it Christ, be it Christ hence to live:
If Jordan above me shall roll,
No pang shall be mine, for in death as in life
Thou wilt whisper Thy peace to my soul.

But, Lord, ’tis for Thee, for Thy coming we wait,
The sky, not the grave, is our goal;
Oh, trump of the angel! Oh, voice of the Lord!
Blessed hope, blessed rest of my soul!

And Lord, haste the day when the faith shall be sight,
The clouds be rolled back as a scroll;
The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend,
Even so, it is well with my soul.

Whatever circumstances we may face or trials in this life, we can peacefully rest assured in God’s love for us.  Furthermore, we are assured that His love knows what is best, even when we do not understand. Jesus said, “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” (John 14:27).  Even when we cannot understand, we can trust Him.  Therein, we know a peace that passeth understanding.

Concluding Thoughts

Next time, we will look at peace with others.  However, it begins with having peace within our own souls with God.  So many cry “peace, peace, when there is no peace”.  Furthermore, they suggest band-aids to heal the broken heart of men.  But alas the only one who can heal the broken heart of man is God himself.

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Previous Posts to Consider

The Fruit of the Spirit is Joy

Displaying the Fruit of the Spirit Love. How?

Perfect in Love Oh How Can it Be?

Is Your Fruit of Love Sweet or Bitter?

How Does God Prepare the Soil for Growth?

What Fruit is the Garden of Your Heart Producing?

How to Discern the Voice of God from Yours?

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On the vine of our life in Christ, another fruit of the Spirit is Joy.  This is not the fleeting moments of joy when all seems well in our life.  Rather this is an abiding steadfast joy that the chaos and pains of this world cannot destroy.  Isaiah spoke of the coming Messiah, in whom our joy is founded.  The Holy Spirit within us, filling us with God’s Joy shone brightly to us and within us through His love. Therefore, this is God’s promise to all who know Him, to all who have accepted His wondrous gift of salvation through faith in the finished work of Jesus Christ on the cross.

            The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me; because the Lord hath anointed me to preach good tidings unto the meek; he hath sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to them that are bound. To proclaim the acceptable year of the Lord, and the day of vengeance of our God. Comfort all that mourn. To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion (and) give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning. (His) garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that he might be glorified (Isaiah 61:1-3).

Because it is His overflowing oil of joy  He pours forth, the mourning of our spirit and soul is erased by His steadfast joy.

The Fruit of the Spirit is Joy

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The first fruit of the Spirit named in Galatians 5:22 is love.  But as we have already looked at in the previous posts, our human hearts ability to truly love is dismal.  Our hearts are often hardened, impenetrable because of our own selfish desires, preoccupation with fulfilling our own need to feel loved and pride.  We seek to “be” apart from God.  Our heart desperately needs to feel that we are loved because of our own merits.  We constantly seek for others to “love us just as we are.”  That desperate need to be loved can only be fulfilled in a close relationship to the very essence of love itself-God.  “For in him we live, and move, and have our being” (Acts 17:28).  Apart from Him, we merely exist, floundering in our desire to be exalted as God of our own life with no hope of true love.

Jesus Christ, the perfect righteous son of God, God Himself in the flesh came to suffer, die, to bear the penalty of our sins and then to rise from the grave victorious over sin and death for all who would believe and accept this gift of love.  Therein, God displayed His perfect love for all who would lay aside their pride filled desire to be “god” and accept His gift of salvation. This He offers to all who would believe.  Furthermore, Jesus declared as He spoke to the Father in John 17: 23.  I in them, and thou in me, that they may be made perfect in one; and that the world may know that thou hast sent me, and hast loved them, as thou hast loved me.

God the Father, loved us with the same degree of love as He has for the son? Imagine that for a moment.

Displaying the fruit of the Spirit Love. How?

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