The first three chapters of Ephesians laid a firm foundation of our position and standing because of Jesus Christ. That is the firm foundation of our identity in Christ Jesus. Chapters 4 through 6 are the practical outpouring of such a life. In other words, how can our life show the truth of who we are in Jesus? It is by knowing the truth of our position in Jesus Christ. And then we allow that knowledge to transform our day-to-day life. Our decisions are then based on knowing the truth of our identity. Letting who we are in Jesus Christ guide our actions. Example: my training as a nurse changed my actions and activities at work. But let me give an even further example.
Truth vs Technique in Who You Are
When I first trained to be a nurse a long time ago, I changed schools. Starting my training in Missouri and then transferring to Florida, I met with some minor technique changes. For example, Missouri taught shot giving techniques utilizing 1 alcohol swab. Florida taught a two-alcohol swab technique. Yet, I did not know there was a difference. No one had told me until I was in practice at the hospital.
The moment came when I needed to give a shot to a patient with the instructor watching. I prepared the syringe with great care. Then, I located the perfect spot on the muscle. Pulled the skin taut. After cleaning the injection spot with alcohol, I then injected the needle with a quick dart like move to hurt less. I removed the needle quickly and put the alcohol swab over the site, pressing slightly downward. All perfectly performed, when the instructor suddenly gasped and said, “Where did you learn to give a shot!” This was in front of the patient. She began to tell me how badly I did and should never again give a shot. Then she left the room. I followed and asked what was wrong. “You must use two alcohol swabs. One before and a different one after”, she retorted.
Yet, the real damage was already done. The patient did not hear the explanation of the trivialities and was left to believe something horrible had just happened.
Truth of Who You Are in Jesus vs Technicalities
The same is often true when we are “judging each other” as Christian. When Paul moves from Doctrinal Theology to Practical Outworking Activities in our lives, he carefully reminds us to do so with love, kindness, and gentleness. He also carefully explains that everyone was given his or her spiritual gifts. These may differ in character. But no one is working alone to do it all. No one has every spiritual gift other than Jesus, who did have them all in one body. Coming from different spiritual gift vantage points, we may approach our role in ministry differently. But the end results are the same as long as we keep Jesus our focal point. Of course, that also means there are some essentials which should always shine forth. Some behaviors that should show the truth of who we are and others we must consider as not part of who we are.
That brings us to the next section in Ephesians chapter 4.
This I say, therefore, and testify in the Lord, that you should no longer walk as the rest of the Gentiles walk, in the futility of their mind, having their understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God, because of the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart; who, being past feeling, have given themselves over to lewdness, to work all uncleanness with greediness But you have not so learned Christ, if indeed you have heard Him and have been taught by Him, as the truth is in Jesus: that you put off, concerning your former conduct, the old man which grows corrupt according to the deceitful lusts, and be renewed in the spirit of your mind, and that you put on the new man which was created according to God, in true righteousness and holiness. Ephesians 4:17-24 NKJV
In Christ, we are New Creations
Although we may each have different spiritual gifts, we are also all new creations in Jesus Christ. When we accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, we are counted as having died to sin, buried with Him, and resurrected into newness of life. That is the Truth of who you are in Jesus Christ.
What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound? Certainly not! How shall we who died to sin live any longer in it? Or do you not know that as many of us as were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into His death? Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life. For if we have been united together in the likeness of His death, certainly we also shall be in the likeness of His resurrection, knowing this, that our old man was crucified with Him, that the body of sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves of sin. For he who has died has been freed from sin. Now if we died with Christ, we believe that we shall also live with Him, knowing that Christ, having been raised from the dead, dies no more. Death no longer has dominion over Him. For the death that He died, He died to sin once for all; but the life that He lives, He lives to God. Likewise you also, reckon yourselves to be dead indeed to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 6:1-11 NKJV
Baptism in Christ Jesus is salvation, not water baptism. Water Baptism in the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit is symbolic of the spiritual baptism that occurs in Christ Jesus. It is not in itself the salvation that occurs when accepting Jesus Christ as Savior which is the spiritual baptism referred to here. The Truth of who you are in Jesus is that you are a new creation in Him. One that includes your being a new man, created according to God in true righteousness and holiness. For as long as we live on this earth with this earthly body, we are to actively lay aside our former actions. You are to remember who you are in Jesus, and stop doing those things which habitually you would do as Gentiles.
How? By feeding the spiritual side through prayer, bible study, and remembering the Truth of who you are in Jesus. When you experience that truth, why would you ever want to go back to the former frustrations? But so often we do without even thinking. We skip the Bible a few days. Or forget the truth for a few days and go on with our lives. Suddenly we find ourselves anxious, fearful, and frustrated. And we wonder why, although the why should be evident.
What Does the Truth of Who You Are in Jesus look like?
Therefore, putting away lying, “Let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor,” for we are members of one another. “Be angry, and do not sin”: do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil. Let him who stole steal no longer, but rather let him labor, working with his hands what is good, that he may have something to give him who has need. Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4: 25-32 NKJV
There are quite a few admonitions here:
- Put aside lying. Speak truth.
- Do not sin with your anger and do not let it continue into the night.
- Anger when it lingers gives place to the devil to cause harm. Like God told Cain concerning his anger toward Abel.
- Do not steal from others. No cheating on taxes, etc.
- Unless what you are going to say serves to edify another, shut up. (something I must say to myself daily before blurting out what I am thinking)
- Do NOT Grieve the Holy Spirit. He is working hard to transform you and has sealed your salvation. So, try not to rebel against Him. He will make certain, He completes His work in you—whatever it takes.
- Put aside all bickering, bitterness, anger, wrath, and evil speaking.
- Be kind, tenderhearted, and forgiving to others.
When you cling to the Truth of Who You Are in Jesus, you look different.
The fruits of the Spirit shine forth when you know the truth of who you are. Those are:
The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23 NKJV
How?
Those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another. Galatians 5:24-26 NKJV
But Again, How Do I Do That?
I say then: Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusts against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; and these are contrary to one another, so that you do not do the things that you wish. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.
Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. Galatians 5: 16-21
But you might say, I try and fail? What then?
reckon yourselves to be dead indeed to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 6:11 NKJV
In other words, preach to yourself.
David did, even the more when he knew he had failed God.
As the deer pants for the water brooks,
So pants my soul for You, O God.
My soul thirsts for God, for the living God.
When shall I come and appear before God?
My tears have been my food day and night,
While they continually say to me,
“Where is your God?”
When I remember these things,
I pour out my soul within me.
For I used to go with the multitude;
I went with them to the house of God,
With the voice of joy and praise,
With a multitude that kept a pilgrim feast.
Why are you cast down, O my soul?
And why are you disquieted within me?
Hope in God, for I shall yet praise Him
For the help of His countenance.
O my God, my soul is cast down within me;
Therefore, I will remember You from the land of the Jordan,
And from the heights of Hermon,
From the Hill Mizar.
Deep calls unto deep at the noise of Your waterfalls;
All Your waves and billows have gone over me.
The Lord will command His lovingkindness in the daytime,
And in the night His song shall be with me—
A prayer to the God of my life.
I will say to God my Rock,
“Why have You forgotten me?
Why do I go mourning because of the oppression of the enemy?”
As with a breaking of my bones,
My enemies reproach me,
While they say to me all day long,
“Where is your God?”
Why are you cast down, O my soul?
And why are you disquieted within me?
Hope in God;
For I shall yet praise Him,
The help of my countenance and my God.
Psalm 42 NKJV
Vindicate me, O God,
And plead my cause against an ungodly nation;
Oh, deliver me from the deceitful and unjust man!
For You are the God of my strength;
Why do You cast me off?
Why do I go mourning because of the oppression of the enemy?Oh, send out Your light and Your truth!
Let them lead me;
Let them bring me to Your holy hill
And to Your tabernacle.
Then I will go to the altar of God,
To God my exceeding joy;
And on the harp I will praise You,
O God, my God.Why are you cast down, O my soul?
And why are you disquieted within me?
Hope in God;
For I shall yet praise Him,
The help of my countenance and my God.Psalm 43 NKJV
So, what do we learn from these psalms toward the truth of who we are? And what to do to remind ourselves?
- Thirst after the Truth of God
- Do not forsake assembling with other believers
- Remind yourself of all He has done in the past
- Preach to yourself
- Pray for God to guide and protect you
- In the dark moments Praise Him for who He is
- Ask for His enlightenment in your life.
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Therefore if you don’t know Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord: I urge you today. Go to my page titled How to Be Saved by clicking on this link. There is nothing more important than this; because He is the way, the truth and the life. I urge you to seek Him today.
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