NOT TONIGHT–A Poetic Tribute to Our Officers

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Not Tonight

Into the deepest darkest night

Where evil lurks-hid from his sight

An Officer goes-prepared to fight

With all His strength and all His might

Praying to God, not tonight

 

He gently pulls His children near

Their smiles can lift his heart with cheer

He kisses boo-boos wipes their tears

And as He leaves for work He hears

Daddy, don’t go, not tonight

 

She kisses him, to work he goes

And all the time, too well she knows

That he must face such evil foes

Phone clutched tight, her eyes then close

Lord, don’t let it ring, not tonight

 

A mother awakens to whisper a prayer

Protect my son from sin’s dark lair

Your warrior of truth-just and fair

Endowed by you with virtues rare

He’s yours to call, please not tonight

 

Forgotten and paid a pauper’s wage

Media and public he must assuage

While calmly holding back the rage

When violent criminals do engage

Pleading to God, not tonight

 

These officers protecting you

They sacrifice more than you knew.

When will you value what they do?

Or even stop to say, “Thank You”?

Shame on you, if not tonight

The sad reality is that for five brave officers in Dallas, it was the last time they kissed their children goodnight, it was the phone call their wife had prayed to never receive, it was their mother’s heartbreak, and it was the communities loss.  We cannot continue this road of hatred toward those who sacrifice so much to protects us.  They see more evil in one night than some of us do in a lifetime.   What kind of world would we have if they all just quit?  Anarchy and chaos would rule.  Those who believe that police target blacks—look at the statistics!  The statistics report that 50% of all police shootings are white, 26% are black, and the remaining hispanic or asian; while 60% of all crimes are committed by blacks.  Do you want to change the Statistics–don’t break the law and treat the officer who stops you with respect–no matter what!!  If 13% of the population are committing 60% of all crimes—think about it.  If you don’t want to be profiled—don’t profile yourselves into those statistics.  Many of my very best friends are black; because, to me color, ethnicity don’t change how I see the person.  I see them for who they are.  Yet, when my purse was stolen it was a black man who ripped it from my arm, when my house was broken into—it was two black men who violated my home, when my windshield was violently broken on my van as I left our office—it was a black man, and when our office in Dallas was broken into—it was 2 black men.  Yet, I REFUSE to say ALL black people are bad because of those 6 who chose to be bad.   Yet, the chants heard in the Black Life Matters protests is proclaiming ALL Cops are racist–using slurs and hatred toward all law enforcement–escalating the problem and resulting in more young black men resisting arrest, disrespecting the officer and fighting instead of “doing as told.”  If you are innocent that can be determined after the fact–not at the moment you first encounter the police!!   Each and every one of us needs to look deep within our own hearts.   The other day I was pulled over because I had forgotten to place the new stickers on my license plates, though I had them.  As anyone when pulled over, my heart was pounding, I felt a moment of anxious wonder as to what I had done.  I rolled down the window and kept my hands visible, open and lying on the steering wheel in clear sight—like you are suppose to do when pulled over.  If there is a delay before the officer approaches the window, then you get registration, insurance and drivers license out to lay in open view in the passenger seat.  If there is no time, just place your hands open and resting on the steering wheel in plan view.  Simple ethics of being a citizen in a democracy such as ours.  Everything was good.  He smiled and said, “when you get home, put the stickers on the tags”  My reply?  Yes, Sir.

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©Effie Darlene Barba, 2016

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Can One Broken, Contrite, Praying Heart Make a Difference?

 

Wherefore lift up the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees; And make straight paths for your feet, lest that which is lame be turned out of the way; but let it rather be healed. Follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord: Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled; Hebrews 12:12-15

This has been a tragic 4th of July week. Our country, my country and yours appears to be in broken turmoil. Split into divides and sanctions with bitterness and hate rising. The hatred, bitterness and divide have been rising over the last 8 to 10 years culminating in all the tragedies of this week. We saw a taste of our officers at their worst. A result of fear for their own life or rage? I haven’t seen all the pieces or facts, so I certainly do not know. Can we judge their heart, their motive from a video? Then we see the police at their finest as we watch them be slaughtered. I watched as the police were placing themselves in harm’s way to protect the protestors in Dallas. Those who were calling them names were ushered to safety by the very officers who walked into the line of the bullets. Other officers again placing themselves directly in the line of fire to rescue one of their own and then to apprehend the suspects.

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We watch snippets from videos and believe that we know the story when all too often we only know what the sensationalists want us to know. I cannot pretend to say I know for certain the right or the wrong of each incident; yet, I am certain I cannot judge the heart of someone else. I can start by examining my own heart. Last night, I could not sleep. I was watching the calm protests and saw the unfolding of the Dallas tragedies when they first occurred. Flipping between channels as I had been doing for the previous hour; trying to reconcile the differences in the “truth” presented, I could not help but notice that some lagged way behind in presenting the news about Dallas while continuing a rant against “all police.” Did their rhetoric escalade and open the door for such a planned attack? Probably not in one day; but, does our need for 24-hour a day sensationalism add to the divide already present within our hearts?

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