Why Does God Allow His Children to Suffer Illness? 

Why does God allow His children to suffer illness?  We plead with God as we watch a loved one battle cancer, heart disease, chronic pain, addictions, or even, mental illness.  Our heart bleeds watching children who battle against rare diseases, deformities, and cancers.  Our pleading prayers appear to our finite minds as unanswered.  Some try to say that God’s response shows that either He doesn’t care about our plight or that our weak faith binds His hands or the illness represents His harsh hand of punishment.  Nothing could be farther from the truth than these three thoughts.  Despite that, many false teachers prey on our hearts by suggesting that if we give them our money, they can heal us.  So, let’s consider; once more, why God allows illness in the life of His children?  Let’s deal with the 3 false statements above, displaying God’s truth instead.

ILLNESS DOESN’T MEAN GOD DOESN’T CARE

Lazarus, a dear friend of Jesus, lay sick.  When Jesus heard word of his friend’s illness, He did not go to Lazarus to heal him, nor did He speak a word which could have healed Lazarus; instead, Jesus waited.  Lazarus died, and still Jesus waited.  Why?  Did Jesus not care about the suffering of Lazarus or his sisters, Mary and Martha?  Certainly, the answer to that question is NO!

The scripture, in fact; says:

Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. So, when He heard that he was sick, He stayed two more days in the place where He was. John 11 (NKJV)

Did you catch that?  Jesus loved…so He stayed two more days before going to where Lazarus was.  In other words, because Jesus loved, He waited.  He wanted to show them something bigger, greater than they had ever known.  God’s Glory shown forth brilliantly when Jesus revealed His Power over death!  He waited so all could see a glimpse of God’s Glory. Look throughout scripture and you will discover that God often revealed Himself through suffering.

God remains more concerned with our spiritual health and growth than our physical comfort; because, He loves us and knows our joy in Him can only be fulfilled by our knowing Him fully.  Our hearts need to be transformed.  Pain and suffering exposes our weaknesses, our selfishness and our sin filled hearts.  These cannot be healed unless they are first exposed. God knows best what we need before we were ever born; to lead us and guide us into a place of perfect joy and peace in Him.  He ever so gently guides us into that intimate knowledge of Him; because, He knows only there can our spirit find rest, hope, and joy.

GOD’S RESPONSE TO OUR ILLNESS DOESN’T DEPEND ON THE STRENGTH OF OUR FAITH

Many modern-day teachers and preachers falsely proclaim a “prosperity” gospel, declaring that one can have all the financial gain and health if only their faith were strong enough.  Because our self-exalting heart desires that kind of message, they gather huge audiences.  We don’t want to hear the truth that our journey here will be filled with trials and tribulations; however, the good news remains that Jesus walks with us through each trial, providing us with strength, hope and joy in the middle of our trials.  The greater miracle shines forth as His Beloved Children trust Him and rise above the trials, lovingly reaching out to others in need with genuine smiles of great joy.

Paul the apostle suffered from an impediment for which he pleaded with God to heal him; yet, God said no.  Consider Paul, not someone of whom we could say did not have enough faith!

2 Corinthians 12:7-10

And lest I should be exalted above measure through the abundance of the revelations, there was given to me a thorn in the flesh, the messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I should be exalted above measure.  For this thing, I besought the Lord thrice, that it might depart from me. And he said unto me, my grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. Therefore, I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ’s sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong.

The truth: Paul’s faith trusted God, even with the infirmity; knowing that God could do whatever He wanted and chose to not heal Paul, rather, to strengthen Him through the illness. Faith shines it’s brightest when a follower of Christ trusts God with all His or Her heart, even when facing the greatest heartbreaks of this world.

IS ILLNESS PUNISHMENT FOR SIN?

No! Certainly, there are illnesses which are direct consequences of our sins; but, that does not mean every illness God sends into a believer’s life came because of sin.  Indeed, illness exposes the sins of our hearts; however, even the most dedicated servants of God become ill.  That was the case with Epaphroditus.   The church of Philippi had sent Epaphroditus to bring money and comfort to Paul, while in prison.  Yet, while there, he became very ill “nigh unto death”; while, doing God’s work.  Paul grieved that this dear man became so ill.  The church at Philippi grieved as well; yet, now Paul rejoiced that God chose to heal Epaphroditus and he could now return to Philippi, rejoicing and bringing hope, joy and love to that young church.

Because for the work of Christ he was nigh unto death, not regarding his life Philippians 2:30

Or look back at the book of Job. Certainly, Job learned of God’s wonder and majesty through the trials; but, he had been a faithful servant before the trials.  Often, God sends trials to those who are most faithful; because, He wants to give them more of Himself

I PETER 2: TLB

21 For God called you to do good, even if it means suffering, just as Christ suffered[l] for you. He is your example, and you must follow in his steps.

22 He never sinned,
nor ever deceived anyone.[m]
23 He did not retaliate when he was insulted,
nor threaten revenge when he suffered.
He left his case in the hands of God,
who always judges fairly.
24 He personally carried our sins
in his body on the cross
so that we can be dead to sin
and live for what is right.
By his wounds
you are healed.
25 Once you were like sheep
who wandered away.
But now you have turned to your Shepherd,
the Guardian of your souls.

 

FINAL THOUGHT

I do not know what sorrow, pain or suffering you face today; but, I do know that God loves you and all He desires for you is good and He will work all things together for your good, if you lay it all at the foot of the cross.

If you don’t know how to accept Christ as your Savior: I urge you to go to my page titled How to Be Saved by clicking on this link, email me by clicking here or comment here

CONCLUDING TWEETS

[tweetthis]Because God Loves us, He wants to have a closer relationship with Him[/tweetthis]

[tweetthis]No matter what, I KNOW God’s Plan for me is always good, all the time[/tweetthis]

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Disclosure of Material Connection: I have not received any compensation for writing this post.  I have no material connection to the brands, products, or services that I have mentioned except for my own books.  I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.

Legacy-What will be the one you leave?

Late 2002 into the spring of 2003, I faced the third major health dilemma when the doctor’s discovered a mass on my pancreas.  Because of my medical knowledge as a nurse practitioner; certainly, this news was grave.  After all, God walked with me through a very aggressive breast cancer from which I should never have survived, followed by a ferocious ulcerative colitis that ended in my colon being removed.  There appeared to be no break from illness for my wearied and now broken body.  All the steroids necessary to keep me alive during the ulcerative colitis, as well as, all the surgical scars, had left their toll on me.  Yet, by grace; God gave me the strength to march forward, to keep on working to support myself, and to rely on Him.  The road before me lay dark, treacherous, and uncertain; yet, I wondered what legacy would I leave behind.

Perhaps, God planned to take me home.  Remembering the lessons learned along this journey of God’s faithfulness, God’s love and God’s grace toward me; I began to write; formulating my first draft of Mountaintop Experiences in the Valley -for those who spend a lifetime in the Valley More as a letter to my children, my friends, and for anyone who might need to know–God is Good, all the time.  God arrives into the center of our valleys to draw us closer to Him; wherein, we find our joy, our hope, and our inspiration. I wrote from a heart overflowing with love; because, I wanted my children to know just how much God loved them–no matter what trials they might face in this life. Paul, from the uncertainty of his imprisonment; wrote letters, telling the church of Philippi to rejoice in Christ, regardless of the circumstances.

A LEGACY OF FAITH

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SYMBOLS OF FREEDOM FOR ALL TO VIEW

I pondered today about the symbols of freedom, dear to my heart.  That lead me to write this poem, as from the eyes of a wondering child.  Children have the way of opening our eyes to see truth.  As for me I cannot fully understand the depth of my freedom in the United States and the flag which stands symbolic of it; were it not for my faith.  Without faith and God’s Grace, I know where I would be–running down some road toward despair, always trying and never finding my way out.  Yet, my hope resounds with joy, love, and peace; because in Christ, I have all that I need.

SYMBOLS OF FREEDOM FOR ALL TO VIEW

By Effie Darlene Barba

The Flag

Grammy, Grammy please tell me why

We fly a flag on the fourth of July!

 

Oh, sweet dear child, the flag you see

Is a symbol of hope; because, we are free

To passionately work with all our might

Transforming our dreams into full sight

 

It’s more than a symbol of national pride

It reflects all those who fought and who died

Protecting our freedom from tyrants who might

Destroy and steal all that is right

 

Grammy, then please can you tell me why?

We fly a flag on the fourth of July

And don’t fly a flag every day of the year

Wouldn’t our freedom be something to cheer?

The Cross

Grammy, Grammy why do people say

We worship the cross on Easter day?

 

Oh, my dear child, the cross you see

Is a symbol that Jesus has set us free!

Jesus died on a cross to pay for my sin

Then on the third day, He rose again

 

Jesus loved us so much, He paid our price

For all the times in life that we aren’t so nice

He offers to give us a heart that is new

Filled with love, joy and hope for all to view

 

If only we ask Him into our heart

He promises that He’ll never depart

Walking and talking, right by our side

So, that in His presence we might abide

 

Grammy, then why do people say

We worship the cross on Easter Day?

Wouldn’t we worship God everyday

Singing Him praise, and bowing to pray?

 

Grammy, I think; since all this is true

Wouldn’t our faith then change our view?

Wouldn’t we want to help men to see?

That they too by faith, can then be set free?

 

The flag is a symbol that I can be free

To worship God who helps me to be

The best, the greatest version of me

To be then a light for the world to see

 

So, to the cross I bow on my knee

By faith I am saved, I am set free

From the chains that would bind

And the lies that would blind

 

Then, I will stand, saluting the flag

It’s symbol of freedom, from age to age

May God bless and guide our nation today

A symbol of hope, for this I pray.

THOUGHTS ABOUT OUR FREEDOM

Have you stopped to think today about your freedom?  All too often we take for granted the freedom that we possess in the borders of the United States of America.  Furthermore, in this land, our dreams remain reachable when we choose to reach with all our strength to touch the stars. Yet, there remain some who wish to burn our flag; the very symbol of our freedom, for which many have fought and died to protect the honor of.  Some proclaim themselves, antifascist while burning, destroying and creating the anarchy picturesque of a fascist society- not even understanding the truth of their own ideology.  Then, we have those who wish for socialism; never realizing that more government control, means less freedom to go after your dreams.

Beyond that, we have those who ask the conservatives to be quiet in the name of “freedom of speech”.  Or those who believe that the 1st amendment stands to keep faith and religion far from government; when, the truth stands firm–the first amendment stood to keep government out of religion, NOT to keep religion out of government.  But for me, faith remains at the core of my freedom.  Because of my faith, I can accept, love and be gracious toward even those who disagree.  As I see them through eyes of Grace, I understand the reason for their discontent with life and the world around them, causing them to lash out against the very ones who want to shine light into their world

CONCLUDING THOUGHTS

As I listened to Dr. Robert Jeffress last night, I knew he spoke the words of my own heart.  Yes, I voted for and stand behind President Donald J. Trump; a man, who like all men does have flaws; but never tries to hide them.  He wears his own imperfections with honesty; while, seeking to find God’s wisdom to guide him.  Much like us, if we were to be honest.  A group of broken vessels; dependent upon God’s Grace.  At a time when our land quickly ran faster and faster away from God; God chose to send Donald Trump to be our President.  He forces me to look deep within my own heart to remove the boulders there; before, criticizing any of his flaws.   God, in His Grace; last fall, allowed me to see beyond the outside and view the heart of this man.

Every morning I send a post-card with a Bible Verse and a Prayer for Donald Trump, it is the least I can do as a humble servant.

I CORINTHIANS 1:

20 Where is the wise? where is the scribe? where is the disputer of this world? hath not God made foolish the wisdom of this world?21 For after that in the wisdom of God the world by wisdom knew not God, it pleased God by the foolishness of preaching to save them that believe  25 Because the foolishness of God is wiser than men; and the weakness of God is stronger than men. 26 For ye see your calling, brethren, how that not many wise men after the flesh, not many mighty, not many noble, are called:

27 But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; and God hath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty; 28 And base things of the world, and things which are despised, hath God chosen, yea, and things which are not, to bring to nought things that are: 29 That no flesh should glory in his presence. 30 But of him are ye in Christ Jesus, who of God is made unto us wisdom, and righteousness, and sanctification, and redemption: 31 That, according as it is written, He that glorieth, let him glory in the Lord.

CONCLUDING TWEETS

[tweetthis]May God bless and guide our nation today A symbol of hope, for this I pray[/tweetthis]

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[tweetthis]Because the true price of freedom Jesus paid on the cross; His truth marches on[/tweetthis]

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I wrote and published Ultimate Inspiration-God’s Plan of Love  answering a lot of the really tough questions regarding faith.   I would encourage you to get a copy of it or one of my other books.  You can find a link at: Book Resources.

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Disclosure of Material Connection: I have not received any compensation for writing this post.  I have no material connection to the brands, products, or services that I have mentioned except for my own books.  I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.

 

 

How to Really Find a Greater Love in Life

As Paul contemplated his future, he acutely considered that he might die a martyr for the cause of Christ. He knew that before he willingly obeyed God’s command to go to Rome.  Now, even more so as he sat in a jail cell, awaiting his sentence.  However, he continued to encourage the churches through letters.  Did he realize that all those hours as a prisoner would lead to our having the truth of the gospel explained with such eloquence today?  How much of our understanding comes from reading the letters written by Paul the Apostle?  Certainly, we recognize that the Holy Spirit working through Paul guided every word!  However, where did Paul find the strength to speak so often of joy in those dark, lonely moments?  He had found the truth of a greater love in life than life itself.

Because in Christ Jesus Paul found a greater love, he willingly sacrificed his life that others might live.  Had he not witnessed the stoning of Stephen, shortly before his own conversion?  Stephen gently, lovingly prayed that the people stoning him be forgiven? (Acts 7) Sitting in his jail cell, did Paul remember the radiance of joy and love that encircled Stephen’s face as he took his last breath? What part did that play in the preparation of his heart to then encounter Jesus along the road to Damascus?  He witnessed the power that greater love gave Stephen as he died proclaiming the gospel of Christ.  Then, Jesus came to him; calling him out to be the 12th apostle; although, he had been a persecutor of the early church and had not followed Christ when he walked on this earth. Yet, Christ presented himself to Paul and Paul immediately loved Jesus.

A GREATER LOVE IN LIFE THAN LIFE ITSELF

Paul’s encounter with Jesus along the road of Damascus allowed him to see Jesus as beautiful, Glorious beyond all else.  Therefore, Paul loved Jesus with a profound love that was greater than life itself.  Now, Paul understood the love Stephen had displayed.  Paul had seen a glimpse of glory and that was greater than anything he had ever known.  Furthermore, as Paul reflected upon his own zealous former life, he stood in awe of such grace that God would love him, choose him and commission him to preach the gospel to a world in need of God’s love.  Paul’s heart overflowed with love.  God’s love filled the heart of Paul to the overflowing with love for all–both these new young Christians; but, also for those who held him imprisoned.

God’s love growing within Paul’s heart filled him with the passion to spread the gospel.  He, then; began to see the world through God’s eyes; desiring that none should perish, but all come to find Jesus as their Savior and King.  Alas, his heart broke for the sinner so much, that he willingly preached the gospel to all; whatever the cost to himself.  He had found a greater love in this life than life itself–God the Father and Jesus Christ, His Son.  That love gave him steadfast, abiding joy in the face of life’s storms.  Because of love, Paul willingly faced every trial; allowing the Holy Spirit to work through him to fulfill the purpose of God through him.  He did not know his letters would one day remain the foundation of the gospel message to the world-God’s message written through one servants willing hands.

WHO DO YOU LOVE MOST?

That question remains paramount in this journey we walk as Christians.  Does your love of Christ compel you to reach out to a world in need of a Savior?  Have you ever mourned for the eternity of another’s soul?  If so, what are you willing to sacrifice to lead them to Christ?  Can you say as Paul did?

Yea, and if I be offered upon the sacrifice and service of your faith, I joy, and rejoice with you all. Philippians 2:17

How to Really Find a Greater Love in Life

Seek and savor Jesus above all else; allowing, the love of God to grow within your hearts and minds, then, you will discover a Greater love in life than life itself.  Therein, you will discover joy, hope, peace, strength and a new life abounding with love that overcomes every obstacle or trial you face.

If you don’t know how to accept Christ as your Savior: I urge you to go to my page titled How to Be Saved by clicking on this link, email me by clicking here or comment here

CONCLUDING TWEETS

[tweetthis]When Jesus Christ becomes your greater love, your life purpose changes[/tweetthis]

[tweetthis]abounding love, joy, hope and peace are found in Jesus Christ[/tweetthis]

OTHER RESOURCES AVAILABLE

I wrote and published Ultimate Inspiration-God’s Plan of Love detailing the effects of discovering this greater love and answering a lot of the really tough questions regarding faith.   I would encourage you to get a copy of it or one of my other books.  You can find a link at: Book Resources.

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©Effie Darlene Barba, 2017

Disclosure of Material Connection: I have not received any compensation for writing this post.  I have no material connection to the brands, products, or services that I have mentioned except for my own books.  I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.

 

How to Find the Balance Between Grace and Justice

When walking through life’s journey as a Christian, we find it hard to balance between resting in God’s Unconditional love and reverently fearing our own failures to do His will. Throughout the letters of scripture, we recognize that our salvation cannot be obtained by the works of our own hands.  Therefore, we can only stand before God’s throne; because of Grace, clothed in the righteousness of Christ alone.  Yet, our salvation can never be a license to sin; it must be, at the same time a call to reverence and obedience before a perfectly righteous, holy God who hates sin and its evil effects.  Proclaiming God’s love and grace; without fully understanding His Wrath against sin only denies a part of His True Glory.  I, daresay; when we forget His Righteous and Just nature, we ourselves risk becoming complacent to the sin in our own lives.

 Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure.  Do all things without murmurings and disputings:  That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world; Holding forth the word of life.  Philippians 2:12-16

BALANCE BETWEEN RESTING IN GRACE AND FEARING GOD’S JUSTICE

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