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Is Every Thing Actually Certified as Good for Those Who Love God?

November 1, 2025 Effie Barba Leave a comment

Does the text in Romans 8:28 mean that Every Thing that happens in the life of a believer is actually Certified as Good by God Himself? Everything? If we stop to remember that God is Sovereign over the affairs of mankind. Then we know He can prevent things from happening. All that happens in our lives is either within the absolute will or the permissive will of God. But how can that be? What about when we sin and walk away from God? Is that part of His will in our lives? And we know that all things work together for good. The Greek word used here is συνεργεῖ (synergei) from which we get the word synergy. In a synergistic manner by God, all the things are transformed into being for our good.

And what about Paul writing we know. Do I really know if this concept of everything in my life being good is absolutely true? But this is very affirmative: And We Know. We Know the earth is groaning as he wrote in verse 22. Or we know not what to pray for. So the Holy Spirit intervenes for us as he wrote just before in verse 26. This is a definite knowing. After all did not Paul himself experience this during his entire ministry. And how true this would become later on. He longed to go to Rome. But this would be accomplished due to his being imprisoned in Rome years later. We have many examples in scripture. Look at this one from the book of Daniel. Where King Nebuchadnezzar declared the truth that God is in total control of the events in our lives.

How Could Daniel’s Captivity be Actually Certified as Good?

Remember the story of Daniel and Nebuchadnezzar, the Babylonian King? Daniel had been taken captive into Babylonian, made a Eunuch, and placed to serve the King. There Daniel and his three friends remained faithful to God, regardless of the circumstances or potential consequences to them. But as God “synergistically” took all the circumstances together, miraculous things continued to occur. Daniel was raised to a place of honor in the King’s Court after interpreting the King’s dream. The dream laid out the future of the nations. Then, Daniel had to tell the King of another dream’s interpretation. In that one the King would lose his mind for a time due to his pride. But this time we see God move in the heart of the King.

And at the end of the days I Nebuchadnezzar lifted up mine eyes unto heaven, and mine understanding returned unto me, and I blessed the most High, and I praised and honoured Him that liveth for ever, whose dominion is an everlasting dominion, and His kingdom is from generation to generation: And all the inhabitants of the earth are reputed as nothing: and He doeth according to his will in the army of heaven, and among the inhabitants of the earth: and none can stay his hand, or say unto him, What doest thou?

At the same time my reason returned unto me; and for the glory of my kingdom, mine honour and brightness returned unto me; and my counsellors and my lords sought unto me; and I was established in my kingdom, and excellent majesty was added unto me. Now I Nebuchadnezzar praise and extol and honour the King of heaven, all whose works are truth, and his ways judgment: and those that walk in pride he is able to abase. Daniel 4: 34-37 KJV

Not only was Daniel blessed with such magnificent prophecies; but King Nebuchadnezzar was saved. Daniel lived to see King Cyrus take reign to release the Israelite’s to return to their land.

Every Thing Actually Certified as Good for Those Who Love God But Who are they?

The Greek word used here for love is ἀγαπῶσιν (agapōsin). According to Strong’s Greek Concordance means: To love, wish well to, take pleasure in, long for; denotes the love of reason, esteem.

If we look at Psalm 128 as to whom are the blessed of the Lord.

Blessed is every one who fears the Lord, Who walks in His ways. Psalm 128:1 NKJV

What does fear have to do with our loving God?

The fear of the LORD is a fountain of life, that one may turn away from the snares of death. Proverbs 14:27

Here we are not talking about frightened of Him per say but rather in absolute awe of Him. Remember how Isaiah fell before Him, or the absolute awesome trembling response at Mount Sinai. There was the response of Habakkuk to hearing God’s voice:

“When I heard, my belly trembled; my lips quivered at the voice: rottenness entered into my bones, and I trembled in myself, that I might rest in the day of trouble: when he cometh up unto the people, he will invade them with his troops.” Habakkuk 3:16 KJV

Yet that led to Habakkuk finding peace and joy in God alone as we read the next verse.

“Although the fig tree shall not blossom, neither shall fruit be in the vines; the labour of the olive shall fail, and the fields shall yield no meat; the flock shall be cut off from the fold, and there shall be no herd in the stalls: “Yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will joy in the God of my salvation. Habakkuk 3:17 (KJV).

So, Do Those Who Fear God, Love God? What does that mean?

While I was in Nashville at the Sing Conference, I heard Michael Reeves speaking about the fear of the Lord. Then this week I heard the most amazing message which I hope all of you will watch:

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He points out the truth that as John looked in to heaven in Revelation 15, he wrote:

And I saw as it were a sea of glass mingled with fire: and them that had gotten the victory over the beast, and over his image, and over his mark, and over the number of his name, stand on the sea of glass, having the harps of God. And they sing the song of Moses the servant of God, and the song of the Lamb, saying, Great and marvellous are thy works, Lord God Almighty; just and true are thy ways, thou King of saints. Who shall not fear thee, O Lord, and glorify thy name? for thou only art holy: for all nations shall come and worship before thee; for thy judgments are made manifest. Revelation 15:2-4 KJV

In heaven, there is a fearful trembling, joyous trembling at His majesty and power. And this will also be the case throughout the millennium. It will be an overwhelming joyous trembling beyond any joy we could ever have imagined. When we see Him fully in all His Glory. We can not even imagine the Awe, Joy and Wonder we shall feel.

Then We will Fully Understand

Every Thing Actually is Certified as Good for Those who Love the Lord. For those who tremble at His Majesty. Isaiah wrote of the Millennium

And there shall come forth a rod out of the stem of Jesse, and a Branch shall grow out of his roots: And the spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him, the spirit of wisdom and understanding, the spirit of counsel and might, the spirit of knowledge and of the fear of the Lord; And shall make him of quick understanding in the fear of the Lord: and he shall not judge after the sight of his eyes, neither reprove after the hearing of his ears: But with righteousness shall he judge the poor, and reprove with equity for the meek of the earth: and he shall smite the earth: with the rod of his mouth, and with the breath of his lips shall he slay the wicked.

And righteousness shall be the girdle of his loins, and faithfulness the girdle of his reins. The wolf also shall dwell with the lamb, and the leopard shall lie down with the kid; and the calf and the young lion and the fatling together; and a little child shall lead them. And the cow and the bear shall feed; their young ones shall lie down together: and the lion shall eat straw like the ox. And the sucking child shall play on the hole of the asp, and the weaned child shall put his hand on the cockatrice’ den They shall not hurt nor destroy in all my holy mountain: for the earth shall be full of the knowledge of the Lord, as the waters cover the sea. And in that day there shall be a root of Jesse, which shall stand for an ensign of the people; to it shall the Gentiles seek: and his rest shall be glorious. Isaiah 11:1-10 KJV

As God in human flesh, Jesus had full understanding of the joyous, awe-inspiring fear of the Lord. This is recognizing the awesome power of God and the magnitude of His grace. Knowing this causes us to see everything happening in our lives differently. We see Every Thing as a glorious picture of such magnificent beauty we fall before His Holiness. Then we truly realize the magnitude of grace required of God to have chosen me to be His child. Betrothed to His Son. How could that be! And then knowing His Sovereign Power, His extraordinary Love, and His Grace. How could I question what He does in my life?

A Fearful Joy confirming Every Thing Actually Certified as Good

For great is the Lord, and greatly to be praised;
He also is to be feared above all gods.
²⁶For all the gods of the peoples are idols,
But the Lord made the heavens.
²⁷Splendor and majesty are before Him,
Strength and joy are in His place.
²⁸Ascribe to the Lord, you families of the peoples,
Ascribe to the Lord glory and strength.
²⁹Ascribe to the Lord the glory due His name;
Bring an offering, and come before Him;
Worship the Lord in holy attire.
³⁰Tremble before Him, all the earth;
Indeed, the world is firmly established, it will not be moved.
³¹Let the heavens be joyful, and the earth rejoice;
And let them say among the nations, “The Lord reigns.”
³²Let the sea roar, and everything it contains;
Let the field rejoice, and everything that is in it.
³³Then the trees of the forest will sing for joy in the presence of the Lord;
For He is coming to judge the earth.
³⁴Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good;
For His faithfulness is everlasting.
³⁵Then say, “Save us, God of our salvation,
And gather us and save us from the nations,
To give thanks to Your holy name,
And glory in Your praise.”
³⁶Blessed be the Lord, the God of Israel,
From everlasting to everlasting! I Chronicles 16:25-36 NASB

Finally, the earth will be released! All that has been moaning, waiting for this moment of full freedom from the futility and sin. So, this is such an awesome trembling of a joy never so experienced by us. Is that not wondrous to imagine!!

Furthermore, who are those who Love God?

to those who are the called according to His purpose. Romans 8:28 c

It is His purpose that Called us. We, who could not have loved Him, had He not loved us first.

Be not thou therefore ashamed of the testimony of our Lord, nor of me his prisoner: but be thou partaker of the afflictions of the gospel according to the power of God; Who hath saved us, and called us with an holy calling, not according to our works, but according to His own purpose and grace, which was given us in Christ Jesus before the world began, 2 Timothy 1:8-9 KJV

What is He working to Accomplish in Us?

If indeed because of all of this. I accept that EVERY Thing in my life is Certified for my Good by God. But what is He doing in my life?

For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren. Moreover whom He predestined, these He also called; whom He called, these He also justified; and whom He justified, these He also glorified. Romans 8:29-30 KJV

He is conforming me to the image of His Son

He is about the work of making me Glorious

How?

1. He predestined me before the creation of the world

2. He called me

3. He justified me

4. Therefore, He also glorified me (counted as complete though still in the process).

This all by the work of the Holy Spirit

Now the Lord is the Spirit; and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as [b]by the Spirit of the Lord. 2 Corinthians 3:17-18 NKJV

And What About My Sin? Is it Certified as Good?

My sin comes from my volition when I take my mind off of Him and focus on my desires. Yet can God who is Sovereign ultimately use that to help me transform? Of course He can! But does that sometimes require my own broken heart? Certainly. But out of the brokenness, He changes my focus back to Him. There I find His amazing joy and presence once again. That makes me less likely to desire to stray from Him. So, yes, even that is certified as good in my life. Not that it is good itself. Yet, God will use my sin to transform me to not desire to sin. Whatever it takes, He will use it to bring about good. Even though, He did not ordain my sin.

DO YOU KNOW CHRIST AS YOUR SAVIOR AND LORD? He is our only Hope in Life and Death! Our Joy is found in Him.

Therefore if you don’t know Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord: I urge you today. Go to my page titled How to Be Saved by clicking on this link. There is nothing more important than this; because He is the way, the truth and the life. Therefore, I urge you to seek Him today.

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Love Divine, God Adopted Me Through Jesus Christ to be His Chosen Child

October 26, 2025 Effie Barba Leave a comment

In our modern world, we often hear those who say, “All we are Children of God.” But is that what the Word of God says? Certainly, we are created in the “image of God.” But does that mean we are all God-like? I do not have to look any further than my own heart to know that is not true. So, how was I created in His image? He gave me the ability to reason, a discerning conscience, a heart filled with emotions, and a triune being. I was created with a body, soul, and spirit. Yet, because of sin, my spirit was one in search of a connection plug. That was until I was born of the Spirit and my spirit came alive. Additionally, having accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, I was adopted by Grace into the family of God. Only then could I truly be called a Child of God.

Adopted into the family of God as a joint heir with Jesus Christ. Think about that! Furthermore, before I accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, my flesh had been bound like a slave to sin. Once saved, the Holy Spirit entered me. Even though it was He who called me, wooed me, and then sealed me by the Blood of Christ for eternity. He also resides within me to transform me into the image of Christ. No fear of condemnation, wrath, nor abandonment. Adopted, sealed for eternity as His Chosen Child. Beloved, protected, and guided every moment of every day. I can call Him the most intimate name of “Abba” which is like My Dearly beloved Daddy. What an amazing position to have! And not because I deserved it. I was the child least likely to be chosen. Yet, chosen all the same.

What Does Being Adopted Have to Do with Suffering?

Notice the last sentence of verse 17 “heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him, that we may also be glorified together.” Could the fullness of the Glory that is Christ shine so brightly were it not for His suffering on the cross? Could anyone see His absolute magnificence and brilliant Glory otherwise. Were it not for our understanding the depths of His suffering to purchase our salvation? What if our standing for Christ or our process of sanctification leads to suffering? Why would we, so indebted to Him, not be willing to suffer for Him as He had for us? Or what if our suffering is for the “good of the kingdom”? What do I mean? Sometimes as others watch our faith during moments of suffering, they come to want to know Our Secret, Our Jesus.

Brother Lawrence was a Monk who could not find rest. That is until he, learned how to practice the presence of Jesus in his life. This he did when all alone as the cook in the monastery. He began to recognize the presence of Jesus in the most mundane areas of his life. Washing dishes, peeling potatoes and so on. Therein, he found joy. Brother Lawrence wrote in “The Practice of the Presence of Jesus” page 9

AS for the miseries and sins I heard of daily in the world I was so far from wondering at them, that , on the contrary, I was surprised there were not much more, considering the malice sinners were capable of. For my part I prayed for them, but knowing that God could remedy the mischiefs they did, when He pleased: I gave myself no farther trouble. Brother Lawrence

Concerning This notation:

Joni Eareckson Tada added in her newest book, “The Practice of the Presence of Jesus page 23

Never once was Jesus casual about human sin. He always faced such darkness head-on, knowing ultimately that sin would be the death of him. And finally, when the Man of Sorrows collapsed in the Garden of Gethsemane, he groaned, “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death….My Father, if it be possible, may this cup be taken from me” (Matthew 26:38-39)

This cup of suffering was so dreadful it was enough to make Jesus recoil in horror: ‘Being in agony he prayed more earnestly; and the sweat became like great drops of blood falling down to the ground (Luke 22:44). As the Savior was shaken to the core, a foul odor must have wafted—Not around Jesus nose but around His heart. Even then, hours before his crucifixion, human wickedness was beginning to crawl upon his spotless being. In that garden, the Apple of the Father’s eye was beginning to turn brown with the rot of our wickedness. (Not His wickedness for even then He surrendered fully to the Father’s will. No glimpse or trace of sin within Him. But a metaphor to describe the awful weight of sin as seen by God. And the awfulness of sin’s wretchedness toward God). Jesus was about to drown in raw, liquid sin (willing to take my place) as all of God’s stored up rage against humankind exploded in a single direction—at Him on the hill of calvary. True God remedied our mischief, but, oh at such a cost! So I practice the presence of Jesus every time I take sin seriously and refuse to sweep small sins under the carpet of my conscience. God forbid that I should ever call an offense against God tiny when it has caused my Savior unimaginable pain. May I never minimize the sin that made him suffer.

My prayer as well. May I never minimize any sin or blemish of sin in my own heart, mind, or body. For it is what nailed Him to that cross. His love for me held Him there while all the wrath of God against sin was poured out upon Him.

As Adopted Child:

12 Therefore, brethren, we are debtors—not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh. Romans 8:12 (NKJV)

What is the best way to honor God for all He has done for us? To live a life surrendered to His will. Why? To live in such a manner as to point others to see His Glory and Grace. In part, that is also living a life without grumbling. As John Piper often says, “God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him.” That is regardless of the circumstances surrounding us. If I truly believe He rewards those who diligently seek Him. And I believe, all things work together for my good. He only gives good gifts to His children. Then, why would I not have a steadfast, abiding joy during the bad seasons of my life.

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ, just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before Him in love, having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will, to the praise of the glory of His grace, by which He made us accepted in the Beloved.

In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of His grace which He made to abound toward us in all wisdom and prudence, having made known to us the mystery of His will, according to His good pleasure which He purposed in Himself, that in the dispensation of the fullness of the times He might gather together in one all things in Christ, both which are in heaven and which are on earth—in Him. In Him also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestined according to the purpose of Him who works all things according to the counsel of His will, that we who first trusted in Christ should be to the praise of His glory. Ephesians 1: 3-12 (NKJV

Knowing all this: how can we adopted children not say with Paul

For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. Romans 8: 18 NKJV

But He goes on to explain:

For the earnest expectation of the creation eagerly waits for the revealing of the sons of God. For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of Him who subjected it in hope; because the creation itself also will be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the glorious liberty of the children of God. For we know that the whole creation groans and labors with birth pangs together until now. Romans 8:19-22 NKJV

We were created to rule and reign over all the earth. Providing for the animal kingdom. Taking care of our world, so beautifully made by God. A task we have failed miserably at. With the fall of Adam and Eve, everything changed. Sin entered the world and infected all of creation. Humankind is the species most feared by the animal kingdom and rightly so. Just look around you at the dishevel humanity has made at caring for the planet earth and the animal kingdom. Yet, the earth is awaiting eagerly for the revealing of the new earth without sin. Yes, every part of the earth was subjected to futility. But they are also subjected to the hope that all creation will be delivered from this bondage of corruption. The earth also will be brought into glorious liberty from the bonds of sin.

Furthermore, we the adopted children of God.

Not only that, but we also who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, eagerly waiting for the adoption, the redemption of our body. For we were saved in this hope, but hope that is seen is not hope; for why does one still hope for what he sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, we eagerly wait for it with perseverance. Romans 8:23-25 NKJV

We too groan. How often while looking at my own failures do I long for that day. A day when finally my heart will fully look like Jesus. The longer I walk in His Loving Pathway, I long more for His presence. Living every moment in his presence, I find I long to honor Him in all that I do and say. Unfortunately, that is not always the case. But thanks to His Mercy, He always gives me the opportunity to fix what I have wronged. Or He takes what I have done. Then mixed with my repentant heart of love, He makes it into something so beautiful despite my bumbling it.

What Do You Desire Most?

“God is the highest good of the reasonable creature. The enjoyment of him is our proper; and is the only happiness with which our souls can be satisfied. To go to heaven, fully to enjoy God, is infinitely better than the most pleasant accommodations here. Better than fathers and mothers, husbands, wives, or children, or the company of any, or all earthly friends. These are but shadows; but the enjoyment of God is the substance. These are but scattered beams; but God is the sun. These are but streams; but God is the fountain. These are but drops, but God is the ocean.” ― Jonathan Edwards, The Works of Jonathan Edwards, Vol. 17: Sermons and Discourses, 1730-1733

As we journey through this land, as His adopted child, my focus must be on Him. He is the Glorious part of heaven. His presence is more than anything else. Yes, I long to be in His presence for all eternity. He is the joy of heaven. Therefore, here on this earth awaiting the full adoption or redemption of the body; I have hope. Having already been adopted but awaiting my final trip home I eagerly await. He must be the one whom I desire most. If not, why would I ever desire to spend an eternity in His presence? Heaven is not just the golden streets, magnificent beauty, and peace. It is all that only because He is there. So if I desire other pleasures more than His presence here, do I desire Him more than everything else? If not. How will I ever enjoy Him for all eternity as the greatest joy?

Besides all that As an Adopted Child, I have a mediator guiding me

So, even if I bumble, pray for all the wrong things, head down the road the wrong way. The Holy Spirit, knowing the will of God prays for me. He knows precisely what to pray for so I might find joy in God Alone. There is no hope for full joy apart from the presence of Jesus and God in our life. He is like my own personal tutor for everything in this life. After all, I am a princess. Should I not have my own personal tutor teaching me everything and every courtesy of this life?

Likewise the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses. For we do not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. Now He who searches the hearts knows what the mind of the Spirit is, because He makes intercession for the saints according to the will of God. Romans 8:26-27 NKJV

Trust God, even when the answer was not the one you thought you wanted. I cannot tell you how many times, He saved me from myself. Sometimes we must say thank you for appeared to be unanswered prayers.

Finally,

TO GOD-MY LOVE, MY HOPE, MY JOY 

My life-so filled with hopes and dreams

Lay shattered at Your feet

So many tears, so many pains

I laid before Your seat

Can I look upon Your face of love

And question what You’ve done?

For You have been my only hope

My only morning sun

 

You’ve seen my heart when crushed with pain

Your hands have held it tight

When I have been so weak, so frail

You’ve shown Your strength, Your might

 

You’ve held me close within Your arms

When darkness filled my night

And when I could not see my way

Your eyes, they gave me sight

 

I lay my life within Your hands

That You may heal my soul

And keep my eyes upon You Lord

That I may reach Your goal

 

Shine forth Your grace, Your mercy Lord

And let me be Your light

That all may see Your eyes of love

The blind, they might have sight

 

Let not the sorrows, nor the pains

Bring bitterness within

And give me strength to walk this path

Protect my heart from sin

 

I lay my heart, my soul, my dreams

Before Your throne of love

I lift my eyes to You, My God

And seek Your will above

 

You are the only one I need

To fill my heart with glee

It is Your face, my one true love

Tis all I need to see

 

So lift me up and hold me close

Reveal Your love divine

That through the holes within my heart

A world might see You shine

 

And if the sorrows of my past

Can touch a wayward one

I thank you Lord for each dark path

That lead them to Your son

 

I praise You now from mountains high

For each dark path I’ve trod

Twas there I found Your heart, Your love

Twas there I found You God

 

What great and wondrous joy I know

Because You are my king

And though the path I cannot see

My heart will trust and sing

 

A song of praise unto You Lord

Who knows what’s best for me

You’ll hold my hand and lead me on

In darkness, I can see

 

Your love, Your help, Your guiding hand

Is all I’ll ever need

So hold me close unto Your path

For this is all I plead

 

I’ll skip with joy along this path

Though darkness may surround

Because I know You hold my hand

My feet will ne’er touch ground

 

I cannot fall outside Your love

I cannot lose my way

I’ll hold my broken dreams once more

And see them real, one day

 

A song of praise unto You Lord

Who knows what’s best for me

You’ll hold my hand and lead me on

In darkness, I can see

 

Your love, Your help, Your guiding hand

Is all I’ll ever need

So hold me close unto Your path

For this is all I plead

Effie Darlene Barba

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12 Steps to Know Joy and Reflect Glory in Jesus Today

October 19, 2025 Effie Barba Leave a comment

Such a deep, dark moment one day over 40 years ago. Driving that day, my heart so heavy. I believed “there was no hope”. The thought of suicide rose within me. But what about the kids? I could not leave them behind. To face what? Pain, sorrow, suffering and abuse? No. If I were to take my own life, I would have to take theirs as well. Unthinkable? Yes. But a thought anyway. Did despair mean I was never saved? No. I was certain of my salvation long before as a child of 5. What I was not certain of: how to live out this life in Christ I had been given. God was working throughout my life to transform my life. I felt I had failed Him and everyone else around me. Yet, He showed me these 12 Steps to Know Joy and Reflect His Glory.

Paul meticulously laid forth the gospel in the book of Romans. With a beautiful apologetics style, he spoke THE Truth. At the same time, he tore down false beliefs taught rampantly in the Roman Churches. Much of which continues to this day in Rome. He brought light into the darkness. Humanity cannot ever live a life on their own power sufficiently holy to be with a Holy God. The sheer arrogance and pride to think one can is in itself sin. If no one can save themselves, then how? Only through faith in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. Salvation from the beginning was faith in His coming and now in His having finished the work on Calvary at such a high cost to Himself. One Love, so unimaginable, we can hardly comprehend it. But therein also lies the secret of how to live this life with Joy, reflecting Him.

Know Joy in this Life?

Perhaps I would have told you that dark day so long ago, knowing joy was impossible. Yet, my heart knew there was something missing. It needed to learn how to live in Christ. In Romans 7, Paul discussed the struggle within our hearts. A struggle between the new creation in Christ and the old sin nature which attempts to take over our thoughts leading to our actions. Perhaps I would have told you a life filled with joy was impossible; but I found that day a determination to seek and discover it. The Bible spoke of it. I desperately needed to know how to find it. That is when I finally surrendered to the Holy Spirit to guide me. After all, I was not doing a very good job on my own. Surrendering before, I had seen glimpses of it; but somehow had lost the joy along the way.

Too ashamed of my own failures, I wanted to just hide from God’s eyes, as if I could, instead of running into His presence. The truth is quite the opposite. We are to run into His arms of love. Romans 8:1 tells us that “There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus”. Meaning, if the Perfect, Righteous, Holy, Just God had forgiven me, who was I not to? What foolish pedestal had I placed myself on to not forgive what He had paid the price for and had forgiven. As a Believer in Jesus Christ, there is no sin in my life, He has not placed under the blood of Christ for me. I am cloaked in the righteousness of Jesus Christ. Therefore, I am His. My guilt: proof of my salvation and failure to grasp the fullness of my salvation at the same time.

A Knew Beginning, Step 1 to Know Joy

You will make known to me the way of life;

In Your presence is fullness of joy;

In Your right hand there are pleasures forever. Psalm 16:11 NASB

So, fullness of joy is in His Presence. How is anyone able to be in His presence? By accepting salvation offered by Jesus Christ. As Jesus prayed,

this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent. I glorified You on the earth by accomplishing the work which You have given Me to do. And now You, Father, glorify Me together with Yourself, with the glory which I had with You before the world existed. John 17: 3-5 NASB

And as Jesus said,

“I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father except through Me. Oneness with the Father If you had known Me, you would have known My Father also; from now on you know Him, and have seen Him.” Philip *said to Him, “Lord, show us the Father, and it is enough for us.” Jesus *said to him, “Have I been with you for so long a time, and yet you have not come to know Me, Philip? The one who has seen Me has seen the Father; how can you say, ‘Show us the Father’? Do you not believe that I am in the Father, and the Father is in Me? The words that I say to you I do not speak on My own, but the Father, as He remains in Me, does His works. Believe Me that I am in the Father and the Father is in Me. John 14:6-11 NASB

So, step #1 to know Joy is Accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior—Only through knowing Him can you be in the presence of God the Father where there is joy overflowing.

Consider the Flesh dead: Step #2 to know Joy in Jesus

So then, brothers and sisters, we are under obligation, not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh— for if you are living in accord with the flesh, you are going to die; but if by the Spirit you are putting to death the deeds of the body, you will live Romans 8:12-13 NASB

Might sound like works to maintain salvation, but that is not what Paul is saying here. He had just completed discussing our eternal position being secure in Jesus Christ. And will go further into this. So, what does he mean that if you are living in accord with the flesh, you are going to die? Is he referring to those who do not know Christ? I do not think so as he has been addressing believers at this point in this scripture. Sometimes, it is that a Christian who persistently walks away from Christ and persists in sin, they may die to this world.

If anyone sees his brother or sister committing a sin not leading to death, he shall ask and God will, for him, give life to those who commit sin not leading to death. There is sin leading to death; I am not saying that he should ask about that. All unrighteousness is sin, and there is sin not leading to death. I John 5:16-17 NASB

Note: John wrote sees his brother or sister. To he is referring to a Christian sinning a sin unto death. This is physical death.

“John illustrates praying according to God’s will with the specific example of the “sin leading to death.” Such a sin could be any premeditated and unconfessed sin that causes the Lord to determine to end a believer’s life. It is not one particular sin like homosexuality or lying, but whatever sin is the final one in the tolerance of God. Failure to repent of and forsake sin may eventually lead to physical death as a judgment of God (Acts 5:1–11; 1 Cor. 5:5; 11:30).”¹ _{MacArthur, John; NASB MacArthur Study Bible, 2nd Edition Copyright © 1997, 2006, 2019 by Thomas Nelson., noted on page 2679}

Other Things That Die: Joy and Feeling God’s Presence

Or it can be they lose the joy of their salvation, as did David. But it was restored, though he did watch his own sins play out in his sons later and must have seen that as painful. Yet, God remained his faithful refuge through it all. Watching his sons’ sin was a natural consequence to how he taught them and not necessarily a direct punishment from God. David’s sins were forgiven the moment he confessed them to be cast as far as the east is from the west and for God that is very far.

Do not cast me away from Your presence,

And do not take Your Holy Spirit from me.

Restore to me the joy of Your salvation,

And sustain me with a willing spirit.

Then I will teach wrongdoers Your ways,

And sinners will be converted to You. Psalm 51:11-13 NASB

Or it may be that you no longer feel the presence of God in your daily lives. Life becomes filled with anxiety, stress, and depression as had mine. But thanks be to God, He restores you and shows you the way to perfect joy. Step #2 to Know Joy in Christ, turn from your sins and repent.

But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh in regard to its lusts. Romans 13:14 NASB

In other words, “JUST STOP IT” in His power. Just ask Him and He will give you the strength to overcome.

Rejoice and Rest in His presence: Step #3 to Know Joy

Let the word of Christ richly dwell within you, with all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another with psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, singing with thankfulness in your hearts to God. Colossians 3:16 NASB

In other words, surround yourself in Him. Be discerning what you hear, watch, and spend your time meditating own. It will lead you closer or farther away from His presence.

Know Him through His Word: Step #4 to Know Joy in Jesus

But his delight is in the Law of the Lord,

And on His Law he meditates day and night. Psalm 1:2 NASB

You cannot know Him if you do not read His Word, His love letters to you. The more you know Him, the greater your joy.

Your words were found and I ate them,And Your words became a joy to me and the delight of my heart;For I have been called by Your name, Lord God of armies. Jeremiah 15:16 NASB

While sin separates us from feeling His presence, His word keeps us from sin.

I have treasured Your word in my heart, So that I may not sin against You. Psalm 119:11 NASB

Prayer: step 5 to know Joy in Jesus Christ

“Pray that you do not come into temptation.” Luke 22:40

We are to pray without ceasing. That means talk to Him throughout the day. Fill your heart and mind with His constant presence. If your mind is like mine it is unceasing in its thoughts. Why not make Him a conscious part of those thoughts!

Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus. I Thessalonians 5:16-18 NASB

Which brings us to step #6: Never forget Your Position as God’s Adopted Child

For all who are being led by the Spirit of God, these are sons and daughters of God. For you have not received a spirit of slavery leading to fear again, but you have received a spirit of adoption as sons and daughters by which we cry out, “Abba!Father!” The Spirit Himself testifies with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, heirs also, heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him so that we may also be glorified with Him. Romans 8:14-17 NASB

Jesus said, “that they may know you love them, as you have loved me.” What an amazing thought that should bring joy

Rejoicing: Step #7 to Know Joy

If you truly believe God IS all powerful, all seeing, and all knowing plus you know He rewards those who diligently seek Him; why are you not rejoicing in all things? He knows what is best for me. Only He knows how He can use my suffering for the good of the kingdom and my good.

The Spirit Himself testifies with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, heirs also, heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him so that we may also be glorified with Him. For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory that is to be revealed to us. For the eagerly awaiting creation waits for the revealing of the sons and daughters of God. Romans 8:16-19 NASB

Know the Holy Spirit Within You is Working to Sanctify You: Step #8 to Know Joy

Whatever things are going on around you and in you to create anxiety. Relax. Don’t fall for it. Know the Holy Spirit is working to transform you into the image of Jesus Christ.

And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters; and these whom He predestined, He also called; and these whom He called, He also justified; and these whom He justified, He also glorified. Romans 8:28-30 NASB

With the Power of the Holy Spirit in you, we will look at some specific commandments as Steps 9,10, and 11 to Know Joy

Step 9:

Flee sexual immorality. Every other sin that a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. I Corinthians 6;18 NASB

Step 10 to Know Joy

And do not get drunk with wine, in which there is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit, Ephesians 5:18 NASB

Step 11 to Know Joy

Beloved, I urge you as foreigners and strangers to abstain from fleshly lusts, which wage war against the soul. 1 Peter 2:11

Step 12 to know Joy and Glorify God

And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him. Colossians 3:17 KJV

If any man speak, let him speak as the oracles of God; if any man minister, let him do it as of the ability which God giveth: that God in all things may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom be praise and dominion for ever and ever. Amen. I Peter 4:11 KJV

So, there you have it. 12 steps to always experience and know joy in Jesus throughout this journey. I was a late learner, but thank God, He is a patient teacher.

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Security in Jesus to Overcome the Battle of Flesh Against Spirit How?

October 12, 2025 Effie Barba Leave a comment

We are set free from the law of sin and death. Then, how do we live a life, here and now knowing this? Previously, we discussed this. Two weeks ago, I wrote about a part of this. The post was titled: 7 Ways Jesus Death, Burial, and Resurrection Powers You to Conquer Sin. There we looked at how our death, burial, and resurrection with Christ makes each of us a new creation. Cloaked in His Righteousness we have power to overcome sin. Sin always begins in our mind, our thoughts. Therefore, we must guard our thoughts by being always aware of His presence. But now this week, Paul takes us another layer deeper. Here we will discuss how our security in Jesus helps us to overcome the battle of flesh against Spirit.

The power of the Holy Spirit is in us. We are empowered knowing that in Christ Jesus our salvation is eternally secure. Therefore, we do not have to be constantly focused on “what we do.” Rather resting in Him, we are at peace to revel in His Grace. As such we glory in trusting Him with everything. We know He has the perfect plan.

All we do is keep Him in the forefront of our hearts and minds. Let Him guide our thoughts, hearts, and lives. How? We do that through constant prayer, worship songs, and reading the Bible. How do we have prayer without ceasing? By including God in all our thoughts. Those thoughts that always run in our own head all day. Consciously realize His presence and you will sin less, even if not perfectly sinless. You will sin less. And you will Quickly notice when you walk away. But I am getting ahead of myself.

How Can Anyone Overcome the Battle of Flesh Against Spirit Without Knowing There is a Battle

After further study and reflection. I want to go back to one section from last week and take a second look at it. When Paul wrote

I was once alive apart from the Law; but when the commandment came, sin came to life, and I died; and this commandment, which was to result in life, proved to result in death for me; for sin, taking an opportunity through the commandment, deceived me, and through it, killed me. So then, the Law is holy, and the commandment is holy and righteous and good. Therefore, did that which is good become a cause of death for me? Far from it! Rather it was sin, in order that it might be shown to be sin by bringing about my death through that which is good, so that through the commandment sin would become utterly sinful. Romans 7:9-13 NASB

John McArthur wrote:

“7-9 without the law. Not ignorance of or lack of concern for the law (cf. Phil. 3:6), but a purely external, imperfect conception of it. when the commandment came. When he began to understand the true requirements of God’s moral law at some point prior to his conversion. sin revived. He realized his true condition as a desperately wicked sinner (cf. 1 Tim. 1:15). I died. He realized his deadness, spiritually; that all his religious credentials and accomplishments were rubbish (Phil. 3:7, 8). 7:10 was to bring life. Theoretically, perfect obedience to the law could bring eternal life, and with it happiness and holiness. But no one except Christ has—or could—ever fully obey it (2 Cor. 5:21; see note on 10:5). 7:11 sin . . . deceived me. By leading him to expect life from his keeping of the law, when what he found was death (v. 10); and by convincing him that he is acceptable to God because of his own merit and good works.”¹

_{MacArthur, John, NASB MacArthur Study Bible, 2nd Edition Copyright © 1997, 2006, 2019 by Thomas Nelson., noted on page 2336.}

In other words. How many people believe that they are “good with God” because they try to do the right thing? For them, their misconception of God’s laws and God Himself, are a stumbling block that will lead to ultimate death. How awful is that? Unless we recognize ourselves to be sinners, we never seek a Savior?

Battle of Flesh Against Spirit Outlined

For we know that the Law is spiritual, but I am fleshly, sold into bondage to sin. For I do not understand what I am doing; for I am not practicing what I want to do, but I do the very thing I hate. However, if I do the very thing I do not want to do, I agree with the Law, that the Law is good. But now, no longer am I the one doing it, but sin that dwells in me. For I know that good does not dwell in me, that is, in my flesh; for the willing is present in me, but the doing of the good is not. For the good that I want, I do not do, but I practice the very evil that I do not want. But if I do the very thing I do not want, I am no longer the one doing it, but sin that dwells in me. Romans 7:14-20 NASB

Before one can even come to accept Christ as Savior, they must first recognize this truth. There is nothing within me that can work my way to God. I am a sinner doomed to eternal death if I do not accept Jesus Christ as my substitutionary sacrifice. Therefore, I faith is believing He is God the Son. And took on flesh to pay the price for my sin. But what if I do not recognize my sin? Or do not believe He is who He said He is? Then I am doomed to eternal death.

Yet even we who are saved. We want to work our way toward being “blessed by God.” But our flesh is no more capable of doing good works now than before. The only difference is we are now saved by Grace through faith in Jesus’ atoning work on our behalf. We have the Holy Spirit indwelling us. But do we turn everything over to His control or do we want to hold back a part? Or do we do something only to brag to God about later? Hmm. If I could do NOTHING to save me. Why would I think I can I do anything to make me better? Or to make God love me more?

So, what now in this Battle of Flesh Against Spirit?

I find then the principle that evil is present in me, the one who wants to do good. For I joyfully agree with the law of God in the inner person, but I see a different law in the parts of my body waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin, the law which is in my body’s parts. Wretched man that I am! Who will set me free from the body of this death? Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, on the one hand I myself with my mind am serving the law of God, but on the other, with my flesh the law of sin. Romans 7: 21-25 NASB

I can not do it. Not of my own will or volition. I could not save myself. And I can not live this Christian life. But Christ can in me. And the sooner I learn that. The quicker I cast aside all that pride of self. Quicker do I learn how to walk minute by minute relying on Him. So arrogantly, we think too much of ourselves. We think we do so much for Him. That is why we get mad if He does not shower us with everything. Is that not part of the false prosperity gospel? Why should I think He would suffer here on earth and I face no suffering? How can I ever become like Him if everything of life is without trials?

But still we are not hopeless.

We are freed from the body of this death. How? “Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord.”

But that is not all! That is not the end! We must move on to Romans 8.

No More Condemnation in this Battle of Flesh Against Spirit

Therefore, there is now no condemnation at all for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death. Romans 8:1 NASB

How in the world can that possibly be? Does that mean I can profess salvation and say, “Thank you Lord. See you in heaven. Until then I will just keep doing my own thing my way.” Not really. Because if you did make Him Lord. And really knew what He did for you. You can not just walk away and forget Him. If you can, most likely, you do not know Him at all. And certainly, you do not grasp the truth of salvation. True believers are miserable when living in blatant sin. We may not know how to get ourselves back out of the mess. But certainly, we are miserable when choosing to sin willfully or unwillingly. But how can God remove all condemnation for those who accept Christ?

For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death. For what the Law could not do, weak as it was through the flesh, God did: sending His own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh and as an offering for sin, He condemned sin in the flesh, so that the requirement of the Law might be fulfilled in us who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit. Romans 8: 2-4 NASB

Nothing I can really add to those verses. We could not. Therefore, God did it for us. The perfect, righteous son of God came to earth. Took on human flesh. Did not sin. Lived the perfect life we could not live. He then presented Himself: the perfect sacrificial atonement for us. Taking upon Himself all the wrath that we deserved. Understanding that truth, gives us the gratefulness for His grace needed to surrender our will to Him. Thus allowing His Spirit to work through us. That is the power He gives us by providing us Eternal Security.

No longer am I worried about my mess ups. My eternal security in Him means I am constantly surrendering to Him. How can I in the depths of my heart desire with all my being to live any other way?

But the battle rages on in my mind at times. So How Does Security in Jesus Overcome the Battle of Flesh Against Spirit?

For those who are in accord with the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who are in accord with the Spirit, the things of the Spirit. For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so, and those who are in the flesh cannot please God. Romans 8:5-8 NASB

However, you are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you. But if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Him. If Christ is in you, though the body is dead because of sin, yet the spirit is alive because of righteousness. But if the Spirit of Him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, He who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through His Spirit who dwells in you. Romans 8:9-11 NASB

It is His work, not mine that transforms me. When we reach that moment where we fully comprehend this. Our rest in His Forgiveness and Unwavering Love sets our hearts free. “Free for what?” you might ask. Free to tremble with awe and wonder at His kindness. That is what is meant where the Bible speaks of our fearing Him. We tremble at recognizing His magnificent power, grace, and wonder. Then we say, “how could He love me?” Knowing the deepest crevices of my heart, He loved me. He chose me. Me, so unworthy of His magnificent grace. Not only did He love me, He secured me forever as His. He entered a Betrothal covenant with me. And He will return for me. To take me to be with Him.

He promised to give life to our mortal bodies as well while here on this earth. Not allowing us to fall into nor remain wallowing in the mud of our own sins. How awesome is that!

Recently, I have found while facing many trials surrounding me that listening to soft Christian music brings peace. My newest favorite is from a YouTube channel called Melodías Cristianas en Bolero. Although I have searched diligently, I can not find the name of the singer. Nor have I found the name of the song writers. All I know they are from Spain, at least according to their feed. Each song so beautifully written and sung. The channel suddenly appeared one day in my feed when I needed it most. Let me share this song with you. It helps clarify this subject. I will put it in both Spanish and English so you can understand.

Me Perdona Contigo

Guarde’ mi cupa tanto tiempo

Que olvide como respirar

Pensé que ya no había aliento

Ni Ojos que me pudieran mirar.

Pero me perdono contigo, Señor.

En tu amor aprendí el valor

No soy lo que el miedo me dijo

Soy lo que tu gracia escribió

Caí mil veces en el error,

Creando que el dolor era amor

Pero tu cruz me recordó

Que el perdón también es mío,

No solo de Dios

Me miras sin juzgar

Me ensenas a soltar

Perdonarme no es olvidar, es dejarte sanar

Me perdono contigo, Señor

Porque en ti halle mi redención

Ya no vivo en mi prisión.

Tu voz me dio liberación

Y si vuelvo a fallar

Sea donde regresar

Me perdono contigo

Porque tu nunca dejaste Amar

I Forgive Myself With You

I held tight my shame for so long

That I forgot how to breathe

I thought there was no air left to breathe

Nor eyes that could look at me.

But I forgive myself with You, Lord.

In Your love, I learned courage

I am not what fear told me

I am what Your grace wrote

I fell into error a thousand times,

Believing that pain was love

But Your cross reminded me

That forgiveness is mine too,

Not only God’s

You look at me without judgment

You teach me to let go

Forgiving myself is not forgetting, it’s letting You heal me

I forgive myself with You, Lord

Because in You, I found my redemption

I no longer live in my prison.

Your voice gave me freedom

And if I fail again

May I find somewhere to return

I forgive myself with You

Because you never stopped loving me

Start at 21.30 for this song

A Final Thought:

I wrote a book in 2010 entitled, “A Broken and Contrite Heart. That was where I found the truth of this. For so long, I held so tight to my guilt and shame I was trapped therein. Perhaps much like Martin Luther. Only at the time, I had already walked with Jesus for over 50 years. But it was then, I discovered as David and Peter did, His grace was sufficient. That changed everything. Step by step, one tiny transformation of heart at a time, little glory by glory, I learned to surrender all to Him. And when I try to take back control of some area, He gently reminds me.

I have often said that while walking down this road of life, I sometimes fall down. Lying in that mud puddle, I want to just remain there. To ashamed to look up. That is when His Gracious gentle hand of love reaches out. He takes my hand and says, “Child, get up”. At first, I cry and say, “But my sin, all this mud.” His response is always, “What sin?” Covered by the blood of Christ, He sees me as spotlessly righteous. Then He lifts me up. Cleans off all the mud and says, “We have work to do. Look at all those who do not know me. Let US go together to tell them. Remember and never forget how much I love you.” Surrendered fully to His will, I march forward. My hand in His.

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Our Legal Marriage Covenant Devoted to Jesus Really Matters. How?

October 5, 2025 Effie Barba Leave a comment

Our Legal Marriage Covenant Devoted to Jesus Really Does Matter. Let’s look at the marriage covenant that is referred to in scripture.

During Biblical times, a young man would go to the house of the one he wanted to marry. He was accompanied by his father. There he would offer her a glass of wine handed him by his father. That glass of wine was to say, “I love you. My life I offer to you. Will you marry me?” If she accepted and drank from the glass of wine, she sealed the covenant. But if she did not, there was no marriage covenant. Jesus Christ took the cup of wrath due us because of sin. He paid our price. A price so great, He asked the Father to remove that cup from Him, if any other way was possible. Aware of the depth of agony before Him. He set His face to the cross because of His tremendous love for me and you.

Then once the contract of marriage was signed. The bridegroom would return to his home with his father to build on the edition to their house. Meanwhile the bride would prepare and wait with great anticipation for her love to return for her. No one knew the timing of the return as all waited until that day when the groom’s father would announce. “Go, get your bride.” Then the son would run whatever time of the day or night to fetch his bride home. Then would begin the great festival with feasting and rejoicing. Finally it was time for the wedding and the wedding feast. What a beautiful picture of Christ and His church.

But about that day and hour no one knows, not even the angels of heaven, nor the Son, but the Father alone. For the coming of the Son of Man will be just like the days of Noah. For as in those days before the flood they were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, until the day that Noah entered the ark, and they did not ]understand until the flood came and took them all away; so will the coming of the Son of Man be. At that time there will be two men in the field; one will be taken and one will be left. Two women will be grinding at the mill; one will be taken and one will be left Matthew 24:36-41 NASB

Our Legal Marriage Covenant Devoted to Jesus

When Jesus Died on the Cross the Covenant of Sin and Death which bound us died. This because He paid the price we owed. That is why He can offer us a new covenant signed by His blood. That new covenant is throughout the scripture shown metaphorically as a covenant of marriage. This is why also throughout scripture God displays marriage between a man and a woman as so honored. To be seen as a picture of the relationship of Jesus and His Bride. Also, Israel the nation was chosen and referred to often as God’s chosen “wife”. Yet, He also bemoans throughout scripture Israel playing a harlot chasing after other gods.

His covenant with them was through the law given to them through Moses. The Law of God’s righteousness, holiness, and Grace was always displayed through nature. As well as being placed in the conscience of man. Also it is displayed in the perfect balance of the universe. Yet, He gave them the written law as well. Why? So that they and we might see how far we fall short of His righteousness.

The Purpose of the First Covenant

The law of God. His righteousness, holiness, and justice is unchanging. Humanity from the very beginning wanted to believe they could be a god within themselves. How else was it the serpent deceived Eve? Then Adam chose Eve over God’s command. If she were to die, then he chose also to die with her. All they had known was God’s love, His presence in the Garden, and His provision. They did not understand fully the righteousness of God, His love, His justice, and His wrath against sin. So, it was they would fall. And we are now born with a choice as to which covenant we fall under. Do we choose to say yes to the cup of wine offered by Christ? Or do we wish to remain under the old covenant.

Such is the confidence we have toward God through Christ. Not that we are adequate in ourselves so as to consider anything as having come from ourselves, but our adequacy is from God, who also made us adequate as servants of a new covenant, not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life. 2 Corinthians 3:4-6 NASB

How Can We Have a Legal Marriage Covenant Devoted to Jesus?

Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man. Romans 7:1-3 KJV

Paul is moving here to further explain what he has already presented in Romans 6. We died with Christ so we might live then to Christ. This time he presents this as a metaphor using the marriage covenant. Just as God refers to our union with Christ a marriage covenant. And God the Father’s Covenant with Israel. Although, His is somewhat like that of a faithful husband with an unfaithful wife. Ours is to be one of greater devotion, given we have the Holy Spirit indwelling to guide us.

Wherefore, my brethren, ye also are become dead to the law by the body of Christ; that ye should be married to another, even to him who is raised from the dead, that we should bring forth fruit unto God. For when we were in the flesh, the motions of sins, which were by the law, did work in our members to bring forth fruit unto death. But now we are delivered from the law, that being dead wherein we were held; that we should serve in newness of spirit, and not in the oldness of the letter. Romans 7:4-6 KJV

We who accept the proposal of marriage We are united with Christ by accepting the cup He offers. Our sins died on that cross with Him. That is, we are then raised to new life. Our spirit which was dead because of sin, is now made alive in Him. That marriage covenant is then sealed with Him by the Holy Spirit.

An Unbreakable Legal Marriage Covenant Devoted to Jesus

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ, just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we would be holy and blameless before Him. In love He predestined us to adoption as sons and daughters through Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will, to the praise of the glory of His grace, with which He favored us in the Beloved. In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of our wrongdoings, according to the riches of His grace which He lavished on us. In all wisdom and insight He made known to us the mystery of His will, according to His good pleasure which He set forth in Him, regarding His plan of the fullness of the times, to bring all things together in Christ, things in the heavens and things on the earth. In Him we also have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to the purpose of Him who works all things in accordance with the plan of His will, to the end that we who were the first to hope in the Christ would be to the praise of His glory. In Him, you also, after listening to the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation—having also believed, you were sealed in Him with the Holy Spirit of the promise, who is a first installment of our inheritance, in regard to the redemption of God’s own possession, to the praise of His glory. Ephesians 1: 3-14 NASB

How are both true? He chose us before the foundation of the world. And He gives us the chance to choose Him. Seems by many an impossibility that both are equally true. Yet, I firmly believe as do many great theologians, they are both equally true. If I understood all the mysteries of who God IS. And truly knew how this all fits together. He would not be as wondrous or glorious. Since I cannot fully understand now, I long for the day even more that I see Him face to face. The day all the mysteries are gone. Yet, even then. The magnificence of seeing Him is such a wondrous thought, nothing matters as much as being just in His presence.

The Former Covenant’s Grip of Death

But if the ministration of death, written and engraven in stones, was glorious, so that the children of Israel could not stedfastly behold the face of Moses for the glory of his countenance; which glory was to be done away: How shall not the ministration of the spirit be rather glorious? For if the ministration of condemnation be glory, much more doth the ministration of righteousness exceed in glory. For even that which was made glorious had no glory in this respect, by reason of the glory that excelleth. For if that which is done away was glorious, much more that which remaineth is glorious. 2 Corinthians 3: 7-11 KJV

The law itself was not evil. Indeed, it was the outward writing of that which was written in the heart of humanity. Our conscience failed to keep us from sin. Even those who try with all their might to reach heaven on their own like the people of Babel. However, we fail. Therefore, the law itself is not bad. It only exposes the death within us.

What shall we say then? Is the law sin? God forbid. Nay, I had not known sin, but by the law: for I had not known lust, except the law had said, Thou shalt not covet. But sin, taking occasion by the commandment, wrought in me all manner of concupiscence. For without the law sin was dead. For I was alive without the law once: but when the commandment came, sin revived, and I died. And the commandment, which was ordained to life, I found to be unto death. For sin, taking occasion by the commandment, deceived me, and by it slew me. Wherefore the law is holy, and the commandment holy, and just, and good. Romans 7:7-12 KJV

There is a time before “awareness” that as a child, we are protected. That is until we become aware of right and wrong. Children do lie, hide, and sin; but unaware that they are sinning. This considered as before the “age of accountability”.

So, What is our hope if we Accept the Legal Marriage Covenant Devoted to Jesus?

Seeing then that we have such hope, we use great plainness of speech: And not as Moses, which put a veil over his face, that the children of Israel could not stedfastly look to the end of that which is abolished: But their minds were blinded: for until this day remaineth the same vail untaken away in the reading of the Old Testament; which vail is done away in Christ. But even unto this day, when Moses is read, the vail is upon their heart. Nevertheless, when it shall turn to the Lord, the vail shall be taken away. Now the Lord is that Spirit: and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory, even as by the Spirit of the Lord. 2 Corinthians 3:12-18 KJV

Ah, yes! We will be transformed. We will be dressed in robes of righteousness. Ours will be fine linen, bright and clean on that our wedding day.

He is coming to take us Home one day soon. We shall rise to meet Him in the air to forever more be with Him. The question then is. Have you taken the cup He offers you? Have you said yes to Him?

Our next glass of the wine He shares with us will be in our wedding with Him. He said, “But I say unto you, I will not drink henceforth of this fruit of the vine, until that day when I drink it new with you in my Father’s kingdom.” Matthew 26:29