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Has God Really Forsaken His First Love, Israel His Chosen Nation? 

Whenever we search around us, we see that all the perfections of this world are fading away.  But we know that God’s word is true and stands forever.  All that He has planned will be accomplished.   Now as we turn to chapter 9, Paul returns to speaking primarily to the nation of Israel. Whereas, he had been speaking to both Jew and Gentile up until now.  He without hearing knows of the multiplicity of questions the nation of Israel had.  After all he is an Israelite. His heart bleeds for them.  One question is “Has God Really Forsaken His First Love, Israel His Chosen Nation?” 

The more I study of scripture, the more ferocious my appetite becomes to remain in His word.  As a recap before we move deeply into Chapter 9, let us remember what we have already studied. We have been studying Romans for a while.  The first 3 chapters outlined clearly the human state of sin.  We are depraved, enslaved to sin, dead spiritually with no hope apart from a Savior.  Chapters 4-5 outlined salvation by grace, through faith in Jesus Christ.  Then, sanctification was addressed in chapters 6-8.  

Moving from Chapter 8 to 9 is a hard turn

A part of me wants to linger in chapter 8. There it begins with “There is therefore no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”.  It then tells us of the Holy Spirit praying for us when we don’t even know how to pray.  “All things work together for good to those who love God and are called according to His purpose.”  Why?  Because whom He calls, He justifies.  Whom He justifies, He sanctifies.  And whom He sanctifies, glorifies.”  Amazing that one day, I will look like Christ when I stand before Him.  Ah, and how does chapter 8 end?  Nothing, absolutely nothing, not even I can separate me from the love of God in Christ Jesus.  No wonder I want to stay there.  Just bathe in the truths packed into those verses.  Chapter 9 takes a sudden turn, as Paul remembers many of His fellow Israelite deny Christ. 

Did God Reject Israel, His Chosen Nation? 

Paul does recognize that for a time, the nation of Israel has been blinded to the truth. Why? So the gentiles could be offered salvation.  It was not the first time God saved Gentiles.  There of course was Nineveh in the days of Jonah.  There was Ruth and Rahab.  Then there was Nebuchadnezzar.  He had even used Nebuchadnezzar punish Israel for her idolatry and “harlotry” against Him.  Then, He saw fit to save King Nebuchadnezzar.  The Jewish nation was to always have been a light to the world bringing others to God.  Instead, they chased the world.  But Paul is heartbroken for his people, just as Jesus had wept over them as well. 

I tell the truth in Christ, I am not lying, my conscience also bearing me witness in the Holy Spirit, that I have great sorrow and continual grief in my heart.  For I could wish that I myself were accursed from Christ for my brethren, my countrymen according to the flesh, who are Israelites, to whom pertain the adoption, the glory, the covenants, the giving of the law, the service of God, and the promises;  of whom are the fathers and from whom, according to the flesh, Christ came, who is over all, the eternally blessed God. Amen.  Romans 9:1-5 NKJV 

Note how Paul lists all the blessings bestowed upon them from the beginning.  They were adopted by God as His nation.  He boundlessly provided for them.  He shed His glory upon them.  They were given the covenants, the law, the promises, as well as His abounding protection through the ages.  It was through the Israelite nation that Jesus was born in the flesh. So, what happened? And what now? 

Were They Blessed Because They Are More Righteous? 

No. He had called Abraham out of a land of idol worship.  God told Abraham to get away from his father’s household, but Abraham took Lot with him.  That became a problem.  Not only a problem with infighting among their servants, but Abraham was pulled into a war to save Lot.  And the descendants of Lot were the Moabites and the Ammonites who fought against the Israelites.  Furthermore, there was the problem that Abraham lied twice about Sarah being his sister instead of his wife.  Well, and there was Ishmael born of the handmaid.  He did become a great nation, having 12 sons.  Muhammed in the Karan does report himself as a direct descendant of Ishmael.

 Yes, Abraham had faith in God which was counted to him for righteousness. But even that faith was given to Him by God and taught to Him throughout His life.  So, would God forsake Israel, His chosen nation? 

But it is not that the word of God has taken no effect. For they are not all Israel who are of Israel,  nor are they all children because they are the seed of Abraham; but, “In Isaac your seed shall be called.”  That is, those who are the children of the flesh, these are not the children of God; but the children of the promise are counted as the seed.  For this is the word of promise: “At this time I will come and Sarah shall have a son.” Romans 9:6-9 NKJV 

Paul begins an argument which is considered one of the strongest for God’s Sovereignty in choosing whom He will.  Not that they were any more worthy of choosing, but that He chose them.  This becomes more evident in the next verse.   

So, Is Israel Still His Chosen Nation?  And what about Sovereign Election? 

  And not only this, but when Rebecca also had conceived by one man, even by our father Isaac (for the children not yet being born, nor having done any good or evil, that the purpose of God according to election might stand, not of works but of Him who calls), it was said to her, “The older shall serve the younger.” As it is written, “Jacob I have loved, but Esau I have hated.”  Romans 9:10-13. 

Now, did God see through the corridors of time and believe Jacob was more righteous?  The heel-grabber who lied to his father and tricked his brother out of his birthright?  Jacob did not walk unto the Lord until God put his hip out of socket making him lame.  

Then there was Judah who slept with his daughter-in-law believing her to be a prostitute.  Yet, Jesus is the Lion from the tribe of Judah.  Or Moses was chosen before he was born.  Yet, he killed a man, and ran in fear. He did not even consider circumcising his own sons while in the wilderness.  That is until God called to him from a burning bush.  Even then, he ran from the snake, explained his speech impediment to God, making every excuse.  But after God transformed him through grace, he led the children of Israel.  Indeed, he offered to take their punishment instead to save them.   A transformation only God could perform.

So, now, for a time, Israel is not the forefront of the story.  We, the church, are.  But our time will be soon winding down, and Israel will be the focus once again.  God will complete all that He has planned for Israel, and they will come to bow down before Him in worship. Paul understood this. And he understood God always kept a remnant as His chosen people. 

So, if God chooses whom He will, is He unjust? 

What shall we say then? Is there unrighteousness with God? Certainly not!  For He says to Moses, “I will have mercy on whomever I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whomever I will have compassion.” So then it is not of him who wills, nor of him who runs, but of God who shows mercy.  For the Scripture says to the Pharaoh, “For this very purpose I have raised you up, that I may show My power in you, and that My name may be declared in all the earth.”  Therefore He has mercy on whom He wills, and whom He wills He hardens.  Romans 9:14-18 NKJV 

I have spent this whole week reading from Jonathan Edwards, the strongest defender of Calvinism.  At the same time, I read from Charles Wesley who was a staunch believer in Armenianism. Both with blessed ministries at the same time in history.  What I found is both were very intelligent highly blessed men of God. There were more similarities in their ministries than differences.

 Bringing me back to believing that God is beyond anything I can comprehend. In my case, I know He chose me before the earth was created. This despite all the times I would disappoint him.  Chosen before the beginning of time, redeemed, called to be His child. Yet, He has chosen the foolishness of preaching to reach the lost and to do the calling. In my case, it was Dr. M. R. Dehaan’s sermon on the radio that I was listening to.  

Now Israel, His chosen Nation He has restored in their land.  Phase 1 of completing all He promised. This after a time period of God’s voice being silent toward them. We the church did not replace them. We are the bride of Christ. They the “unfaithful wife” of the Father.

The truth is that none, no not one, of us deserve salvation.  But He chose to save some.  That does not make me desire to sin more, as some would think.  The truth that He saved me and secures me. Well that only makes me more dedicated to serving Him with all my heart, mind, strength, and soul. 

Do We Think Too Little of God? As though He was not the Creator? 

You will say to me then, “Why does He still find fault? For who has resisted His will?” But indeed, O man, who are you to reply against God? Will the thing formed say to him who formed it, “Why have you made me like this?”  Does not the potter have power over the clay, from the same lump to make one vessel for honor and another for dishonor?  Romans 9:19-21 NKJV 

So, do I truly have any right to judge God?  Or to question Him?  He who has been my rock and high tower throughout my life?  Nor does Israel have any right to question all He has done this.  They currently for the most part do not even consider being true to God.  That is all but a remnant.  So, if many are for the moment not called, does that make God any less?  He still will keep all His promises.

God will call out those whom He will, until that day when the church age ends.  Then through the tribulation He will purify Israel, His chosen nation.  They will rejoice. When? At the end of the tribulation. When they behold their King on a white horse to set up His Kingdom on earth. They will recognize He whom they have pierced and bow before Him. King David will be His prince on the throne in Jerusalem during the millennial reign of Christ.   So, as Paul continues 

What if God, wanting to show His wrath and to make His power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath prepared for destruction,  and that He might make known the riches of His glory on the vessels of mercy, which He had prepared beforehand for glory,  even us whom He called, not of the Jews only, but also of the Gentiles? Romans 9:22-24 NKJV 

Therefore, we can trust He has a perfect plan. Even if we do not fully understand. I do not fully understand how He holds the universe together. Nor how He hears all our prayers at the same time. But I know He does.

Israel, His Chosen Nation Set Aside Until The Bride of Christ is Called 

As He says also in Hosea: 

“I will call them My people, who were not My people, 

And her beloved, who was not beloved.” 

“And it shall come to pass in the place where it was said to them, 

‘You are not My people,’ 

There they shall be called sons of the living God.”  Romans 9:25-26 NKJV 

But He keeps a remnant Among Israel His Chosen Nation 

Isaiah also cries out concerning Israel: 

“Though the number of the children of Israel be as the sand of the sea, 

The remnant will be saved. 

For He will finish the work and cut it short in righteousness, 

Because the Lord will make a short work upon the earth.” 

And as Isaiah said before: 

“Unless the Lord of Sabaoth had left us a seed, 

We would have become like Sodom, 

And we would have been made like Gomorrah.  Romans 9: 27-29 NKJV 

All that is Not of Faith benefits Nothing 

Israel still thought they could keep the law and did not want to accept a Messiah when He came.  But that is the wonderful mystery of God.  Though alluded to in the Old Testament, no one wanted to see the truth.  

What shall we say then? That Gentiles, who did not pursue righteousness, have attained to righteousness, even the righteousness of faith;  but Israel, pursuing the law of righteousness, has not attained to the law of righteousness.  Why? Because they did not seek it by faith, but as it were, by the works of the law. For they stumbled at that stumbling stone.  As it is written: 

“Behold, I lay in Zion a stumbling stone and rock of offense, 

And whoever believes on Him will not be put to shame.”  Romans 9:30 NKJV 

Conclusion: 

Next in Chapter 20 we return to Paul discussing salvation where all that salvation is near to all.  That if we confess with our mouth and believe with our hearts we will be saved.  He says this is through preaching and calls us to be witnesses.  So, yes I believe in predestination and yes I believe that salvation is through accepting Christ as Lord and Savior.  I do not need to know every detail of how both are true. All I need is to trust  my Lord and Savior.  I know He is good, wise, gracious, and just.  That is all I need to really know. 

DO YOU KNOW CHRIST AS YOUR SAVIOR AND LORD? He is our only Hope in Life and Death! Our Joy is found in Him.

Therefore if you don’t know Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord: I urge you today. Go to my page titled How to Be Saved by clicking on this link. There is nothing more important than this; because He is the way, the truth and the life. Therefore, I urge you to seek Him today.

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Study and Pray to Know the Wonder and Mystery of God Almighty 

Paul spent a lifetime studying the scriptures before His conversion. Still he was amazed by the Wonder and Mystery of God Almighty in His plan of salvation.  All that he had read was nothing compared to what he came to know after his conversion.  Now it was God opening His eyes.  The Holy Spirit indwelling him and the time he spent studying directly under Jesus.  Direct Communion with God was his next training. There in life’s training with the Holy Spirit’s guidance, the wonder and the mystery of God Almighty was revealed.

But I make known to you, brethren, that the gospel which was preached by me is not according to man. For I neither received it from man, nor was I taught it, but it came through the revelation of Jesus Christ.   For you have heard of my former conduct in Judaism, how I persecuted the church of God beyond measure and tried to destroy it. And I advanced in Judaism beyond many of my contemporaries in my own nation, being more exceedingly zealous for the traditions of my fathers.  

But when it pleased God, who separated me from my mother’s womb and called me through His grace, to reveal His Son in me, that I might preach Him among the Gentiles, I did not immediately confer with flesh and blood,  nor did I go up to Jerusalem to those who were apostles before me; but I went to Arabia, and returned again to Damascus. Then after three years I went up to Jerusalem to see Peter, and remained with him fifteen days. But I saw none of the other apostles except James, the Lord’s brother. Galatians 1:11-19 NKJV 

To Know the Wonder and the Mystery of God Almighty 

Perhaps, one mystery we are left to wonder about is Free Will versus Sovereignty. That is the arguments about human free will and the Sovereignty of God over all affairs. How do we justify both?  Man in his total depravity does not even seek God.  Yet, some were chosen before creation, predestined.  Still even Jesus spoke of choice and election in the same illustration. 

And Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life. He who comes to Me shall never hunger, and he who believes in Me shall never thirst. But I said to you that you have seen Me and yet do not believe. All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and the one who comes to Me I will by no means cast out. For I have come down from heaven, not to do My own will, but the will of Him who sent Me. This is the will of the Father who sent Me, that of all He has given Me I should lose nothing, but should raise it up at the last day.  And this is the will of Him who sent Me, that everyone who sees the Son and believes in Him may have everlasting life; and I will raise him up at the last day.”  John 6: 35-40 NKJV 

Caught Between and Seeking Truth 

This is a fence on which I have stood for a long time.  When asked about predestination, I say yes.  Because I could never understand how a 5-year-old child understood that day. “I am sinner in need of a Savior.”  Or that Jesus’ death on the cross paid my sins.  But I did.  Nothing short of a miracle could have caused that.  That had to have been that I was chosen through no work of my own.  Then through those long middle years when my choices were at times against His word.  More often than not. There I knew, freedom of choice was leading down paths of shame and guilt.  He did not leave me alone; but I felt the weight of my sin.  I so wanted to do better yet did not even know how.  So, when asked about free will of men and women, I also say yes.   

How can it be that both are true?  Yet, they are.  Some would say that Romans 8: 28-30 fully explains it. But I will lay that out for you and you choose.  But choosing wisely comes through study and prayer. 

Know the Wonder and Mystery of God Almighty 

And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren. Moreover whom He predestined, these He also called; whom He called, these He also justified; and whom He justified, these He also glorified. Romans 8:28 -30 NKJV

We know (have discovered, experienced, and recognize as always true).  What do we know? All things (not just the good, nor the righteous works of our hands-even the evil around us. What do all things do? Work together for good to those who love God.  How do I love God except by His revealing Himself to me?  Could I have loved Him had He not first loved me and called me?  Called how?  Called according to His purpose.  What is His purpose?   

For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.  Ephesians 2:10 NKJV 

Does that mean even Lucifer’s fall, becoming Satan was for our good? Certainly, God did not create him evil.  He made Lucifer beautifully and wondrous.  But he was given as all the angels free moral will.  Why?  Did not God know what Lucifer would do?  Yes.  But God did not make him sin.  That was his choice due to having free moral will.  Nothing and no one can truly love, adore, or worship without choice.  That is unless programmed to do so like AI and then that is not true love or worship.   

C. S. Lewis wrote in mere Christianity:  

    God created things which had free will.  That means creatures can go either wrong or right.  Some people think they can imagine a creature which was free but had no possibility of going wrong; I cannot.  If a thing is free to be good it is also free to be bad. And free will is what has made evil possible.  Why, then, did God give them free will? Because free will though it makes evil possible, is also the only thing that makes possible any love or goodness or joy worth having.  A world of automata-of creatures that worked like machines-would hardly be worth creating. 

    The happiness which God designs for His higher creatures is the happiness of being freely, voluntarily united to Him and to each in an ecstasy of love delight compared with which the most rapturous love between a man and a woman on this earth is mere milk and water.  And for that they must be free.   C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity, (New York: HarperCollins, 1952), 47-48 

The Wonder and Mystery of God Almighty 

Without free will, we could never understand nor experience perfect love, joy, hope, or glory.  Instead we would be like robots wandering about the planet with no depth of feeling and no reasoning. Lewis goes on to say: 

    Of course, God knew what would happen if they used their freedom the wrong way: apparently, He thought it worth the risk.  Perhaps we feel inclined to disagree with Him.  But there is a difficulty about disagreeing with God. He is the source from which all your reasoning power comes: you could not be right, and He wrong any more than a stream can rise higher than its own source.  When you are arguing against Him you are arguing against the very power that makes you able to argue at all: it is like cutting off the branch you are sitting on. 

    If God thinks this state of war in the universe a price worth paying for free will—that is, for making a live world in which creatures can do real good or harm and something of real importance can happen, instead of a toy world which only moves when He pulls the strings—then we may take it is worth paying. C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity, (New York: HarperCollins, 1952), 47-48 

Outside Space and Time:  The Wonder and Mystery of God Almighty 

God is omniscient.  He is outside of our space; time continuums.  Therefore, He sees all things in the same instant.  Past, present, and future.  Furthermore, He sees and knows the heart of each person born. Even more clearly than they themselves know their own hearts and minds.  Example:  I may think I am doing something for God’s Glory. Later, I realize it was my own glory that I was seeking.  Wanting others to praise me for what I do.  And never realizing until later what was happening.  Yet, God already knew before He revealed it to my own heart and mind.  But, He loved me anyway.  All that to say.  What if part of His choosing one and not another is He already knows the end.  It is still His Sovereign Grace that allowed Him to choose me anyway.  Yet, did He see that my heart would say, yes?  So, lets look again. 

 For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren Romans 8:29.   

He knew me before the earth was ever created.  And He loved me enough to deal with all the years of other rejections. Just so I might one day be conformed into the image of Jesus.  How miraculous and wonderful and mysterious is that!!!  Not that my heart was any better than anyone else.  I proved that through the tumultuous years.  But He saw that little five-year-old standing in the kitchen, facing the corner, praying to receive Christ while Dr. M. R. Dehaan was preaching about the blood of Christ. The sermon playing on the radio. God saw me before He made the earth. Right then, He thought it was worth it all to love me and save me.  And that is not all.  That is just the beginning. 

The Wonder and Mystery of God Almighty—In allowing free choice, without compromising His Sovereignty over all. 

Moreover whom He predestined, these He also called; whom He called, these He also justified; and whom He justified, these He also glorified.  Romans 8:30. 

All whom He foreknows are predestined.  These He calls supernaturally by the Holy Spirit.  All whom He calls, He justifies.  Some He bids to come, but these are not the CALLED according to His purpose, if they deny Him.  Each denial leads to a harder heart.  Although nothing is impossible with God. He is not going to destine someone to eternity with Him, who wants nothing to do with Him.    

What an amazing God.  I do not say that I understand this mystery completely.  If I could or thought I could then I would think myself God.  And only He is God.  What is even more amazing?  Nothing can separate me from the love of God.  Not even me, myself, or I. 

What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?  He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things?  Who shall bring a charge against God’s elect? It is God who justifies. Who is he who condemns? It is Christ who died, and furthermore is also risen, who is even at the right hand of God, who also makes intercession for us.  Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?  As it is written: 

“For Your sake we are killed all day long; 

We are accounted as sheep for the slaughter.” 

Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us.  For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come,  nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.  Romans 8:31-38  NKJV 

What Part is Mine to Know the Wonder and Mystery of God 

Never forsake studying His word, to know Him even more.  Also, pray unceasingly, acknowledging His constant presence.   

I will end today’s lesson with this poem I wrote long ago.  

Yes, I Would 

As Chosen, Redeemed, Beloved Child of God  

Wherever I go, wherever I’ve trod  

He’s been there to guide each step of my way  

Clutching my hand so I can’t go astray  

Through moments despairing and moments of glee  

His presence surrounding, covering me  

Protecting and healing each wound of my heart  

No matter what happened, he ne’er did depart  

Whenever I fell in the mud and the mire  

As hell bent I ran after selfish desire  

So gentle and patient, with eyes filled with love  

He’d stretch out His hand from heaven above  

How can it be after all that I’d done?  

He willingly sacrificed His only Son  

To ransom my soul—to give me new life  

Despite all the times, I gave Him such strife  

If only I could love Him even half as I should  

I’d seek and I’d savor His Will, Yes, I would  

I never would doubt Him, I’d never be sad  

Trusting His word, I’d always be glad  

Humbly, I’d bow down to worship my King  

Forever and ever His praises to sing  

If only I loved Him even half as I should  

I’d seek and I’d savor His will, Yes, I would  

Oh, precious dear Father in your presence I stand  

And quietly listen for your next command  

Let the love of your heart and your Glory Divine  

Pour forth to the world through these hands of mine 

DO YOU KNOW CHRIST AS YOUR SAVIOR AND LORD? He is our only Hope in Life and Death! Our Joy is found in Him.

Therefore if you don’t know Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord: I urge you today. Go to my page titled How to Be Saved by clicking on this link. There is nothing more important than this; because He is the way, the truth and the life. Therefore, I urge you to seek Him today.

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Is Every Thing Actually Certified as Good for Those Who Love God? 

Does the text in Romans 8:28 mean that Every Thing that happens in the life of a believer is actually Certified as Good by God Himself?  Everything?  If we stop to remember that God is Sovereign over the affairs of mankind. Then we know He can prevent things from happening.  All that happens in our lives is either within the absolute will or the permissive will of God.  But how can that be?  What about when we sin and walk away from God?  Is that part of His will in our lives?  And we know that all things work together for good.    The Greek word used here is συνεργεῖ (synergei) from which we get the word synergy.  In a synergistic manner by God, all the things are transformed into being for our good.   

And what about Paul writing we know.  Do I really know if this concept of everything in my life being good is absolutely true?  But this is very affirmative:  And We Know.  We Know the earth is groaning as he wrote in verse 22.  Or we know not what to pray for. So the Holy Spirit intervenes for us as he wrote just before in verse 26.  This is a definite knowing.  After all did not Paul himself experience this during his entire ministry.  And how true this would become later on.  He longed to go to Rome. But this would be accomplished due to his being imprisoned in Rome years later. We have many examples in scripture. Look at this one from the book of Daniel.  Where King Nebuchadnezzar declared the truth that God is in total control of the events in our lives.   

How Could Daniel’s Captivity be Actually Certified as Good? 

Remember the story of Daniel and Nebuchadnezzar, the Babylonian King? Daniel had been taken captive into Babylonian, made a Eunuch, and placed to serve the King.  There Daniel and his three friends remained faithful to God, regardless of the circumstances or potential consequences to them.  But as God “synergistically” took all the circumstances together, miraculous things continued to occur.  Daniel was raised to a place of honor in the King’s Court after interpreting the King’s dream. The dream laid out the future of the nations.  Then, Daniel had to tell the King of another dream’s interpretation. In that one the King would lose his mind for a time due to his pride.  But this time we see God move in the heart of the King. 

And at the end of the days I Nebuchadnezzar lifted up mine eyes unto heaven, and mine understanding returned unto me, and I blessed the most High, and I praised and honoured Him that liveth for ever, whose dominion is an everlasting dominion, and His kingdom is from generation to generation: And all the inhabitants of the earth are reputed as nothing: and He doeth according to his will in the army of heaven, and among the inhabitants of the earth: and none can stay his hand, or say unto him, What doest thou?   

At the same time my reason returned unto me; and for the glory of my kingdom, mine honour and brightness returned unto me; and my counsellors and my lords sought unto me; and I was established in my kingdom, and excellent majesty was added unto me.  Now I Nebuchadnezzar praise and extol and honour the King of heaven, all whose works are truth, and his ways judgment: and those that walk in pride he is able to abase.  Daniel 4: 34-37 KJV 

Not only was Daniel blessed with such magnificent prophecies; but King Nebuchadnezzar was saved.  Daniel lived to see King Cyrus take reign to release the Israelite’s to return to their land.   

Every Thing Actually Certified as Good for Those Who Love God But Who are they? 

The Greek word used here for love is ἀγαπῶσιν (agapōsin). According to Strong’s Greek Concordance means: To love, wish well to, take pleasure in, long for; denotes the love of reason, esteem.

If we look at Psalm 128 as to whom are the blessed of the Lord. 

Blessed is every one who fears the Lord,  Who walks in His ways.  Psalm 128:1  NKJV

What does fear have to do with our loving God?   

The fear of the LORD is a fountain of life, that one may turn away from the snares of death. Proverbs 14:27 

Here we are not talking about frightened of Him per say but rather in absolute awe of Him. Remember how Isaiah fell before Him, or the absolute awesome trembling response at Mount Sinai.  There was the response of Habakkuk to hearing God’s voice: 

“When I heard, my belly trembled; my lips quivered at the voice: rottenness entered into my bones, and I trembled in myself, that I might rest in the day of trouble: when he cometh up unto the people, he will invade them with his troops.”  Habakkuk 3:16 KJV 

Yet that led to Habakkuk finding peace and joy in God alone as we read the next verse. 

“Although the fig tree shall not blossom, neither shall fruit be in the vines; the labour of the olive shall fail, and the fields shall yield no meat; the flock shall be cut off from the fold, and there shall be no herd in the stalls: “Yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will joy in the God of my salvation.  Habakkuk 3:17 (KJV). 

So, Do Those Who Fear God, Love God?  What does that mean? 

While I was in Nashville at the Sing Conference, I heard Michael Reeves speaking about the fear of the Lord.  Then this week I heard the most amazing message which I hope all of you will watch: 

Please watch on youtube.

He points out the truth that as John looked in to heaven in Revelation 15, he wrote: 

  And I saw as it were a sea of glass mingled with fire: and them that had gotten the victory over the beast, and over his image, and over his mark, and over the number of his name, stand on the sea of glass, having the harps of God. And they sing the song of Moses the servant of God, and the song of the Lamb, saying, Great and marvellous are thy works, Lord God Almighty; just and true are thy ways, thou King of saints. Who shall not fear thee, O Lord, and glorify thy name? for thou only art holy: for all nations shall come and worship before thee; for thy judgments are made manifest. Revelation 15:2-4 KJV 

In heaven, there is a fearful trembling, joyous trembling at His majesty and power.  And this will also be the case throughout the millennium.  It will be an overwhelming joyous trembling beyond any joy we could ever have imagined.  When we see Him fully in all His Glory.  We can not even imagine the Awe, Joy and Wonder we shall feel. 

Then We will Fully Understand 

 Every Thing Actually is Certified as Good for Those who Love the Lord.  For those who tremble at His Majesty.  Isaiah wrote of the Millennium 

And there shall come forth a rod out of the stem of Jesse, and a Branch shall grow out of his roots: And the spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him, the spirit of wisdom and understanding, the spirit of counsel and might, the spirit of knowledge and of the fear of the Lord; And shall make him of quick understanding in the fear of the Lord: and he shall not judge after the sight of his eyes, neither reprove after the hearing of his ears: But with righteousness shall he judge the poor, and reprove with equity for the meek of the earth: and he shall smite the earth: with the rod of his mouth, and with the breath of his lips shall he slay the wicked. 

 And righteousness shall be the girdle of his loins, and faithfulness the girdle of his reins.  The wolf also shall dwell with the lamb, and the leopard shall lie down with the kid; and the calf and the young lion and the fatling together; and a little child shall lead them.  And the cow and the bear shall feed; their young ones shall lie down together: and the lion shall eat straw like the ox.  And the sucking child shall play on the hole of the asp, and the weaned child shall put his hand on the cockatrice’ den They shall not hurt nor destroy in all my holy mountain: for the earth shall be full of the knowledge of the Lord, as the waters cover the sea. And in that day there shall be a root of Jesse, which shall stand for an ensign of the people; to it shall the Gentiles seek: and his rest shall be glorious. Isaiah 11:1-10 KJV

As God in human flesh, Jesus had full understanding of the joyous, awe-inspiring fear of the Lord.  This is recognizing the awesome power of God and the magnitude of His grace.  Knowing this causes us to see everything happening in our lives differently. We see Every Thing as a glorious picture of such magnificent beauty we fall before His Holiness.  Then we truly realize the magnitude of grace required of God to have chosen me to be His child.  Betrothed to His Son.  How could that be!  And then knowing His Sovereign Power, His extraordinary Love, and His Grace. How could I question what He does in my life? 

A Fearful Joy confirming Every Thing Actually Certified as Good

For great is the Lord, and greatly to be praised;
He also is to be feared above all gods.
26 For all the gods of the peoples are idols,
But the Lord made the heavens.
27 Splendor and majesty are before Him,
Strength and joy are in His place.
28 Ascribe to the Lord, you families of the peoples,
Ascribe to the Lord glory and strength.
29 Ascribe to the Lord the glory due His name;
Bring an offering, and come before Him;
Worship the Lord in holy attire.
30 Tremble before Him, all the earth;
Indeed, the world is firmly established, it will not be moved.
31 Let the heavens be joyful, and the earth rejoice;
And let them say among the nations, “The Lord reigns.”
32 Let the sea roar, and everything it contains;
Let the field rejoice, and everything that is in it.
33 Then the trees of the forest will sing for joy in the presence of the Lord;
For He is coming to judge the earth.
34 Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good;
For His faithfulness is everlasting.
35 Then say, “Save us, God of our salvation,
And gather us and save us from the nations,
To give thanks to Your holy name,
And glory in Your praise.”
36 Blessed be the Lord, the God of Israel,
From everlasting to everlasting! I Chronicles 16:25-36 NASB

Finally, the earth will be released! All that has been moaning, waiting for this moment of full freedom from the futility and sin. So, this is such an awesome trembling of a joy never so experienced by us. Is that not wondrous to imagine!!

Furthermore, who are those who Love God? 

to those who are the called according to His purpose. Romans 8:28 c 

It is His purpose that Called us. We, who could not have loved Him, had He not loved us first.  

Be not thou therefore ashamed of the testimony of our Lord, nor of me his prisoner: but be thou partaker of the afflictions of the gospel according to the power of God; Who hath saved us, and called us with an holy calling, not according to our works, but according to His own purpose and grace, which was given us in Christ Jesus before the world began,  2 Timothy 1:8-9 KJV 

What is He working to Accomplish in Us? 

If indeed because of all of this. I accept that EVERY Thing in my life is Certified for my Good by God. But what is He doing in my life? 

For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren. Moreover whom He predestined, these He also called; whom He called, these He also justified; and whom He justified, these He also glorified. Romans 8:29-30 KJV

  1. He is conforming me to the image of His Son 
  1. He is about the work of making me Glorious 

How?   

      1.  He predestined me before the creation of the world 

       2.  He called me 

        3.  He justified me 

         4.  Therefore, He also glorified me (counted as complete though still in the process).

This all by the work of the Holy Spirit 

Now the Lord is the Spirit; and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty.  But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as [b]by the Spirit of the Lord.  2 Corinthians 3:17-18 NKJV 

And What About My Sin? Is it Certified as Good?

My sin comes from my volition when I take my mind off of Him and focus on my desires. Yet can God who is Sovereign ultimately use that to help me transform? Of course He can! But does that sometimes require my own broken heart? Certainly. But out of the brokenness, He changes my focus back to Him. There I find His amazing joy and presence once again. That makes me less likely to desire to stray from Him. So, yes, even that is certified as good in my life. Not that it is good itself. Yet, God will use my sin to transform me to not desire to sin. Whatever it takes, He will use it to bring about good. Even though, He did not ordain my sin.

DO YOU KNOW CHRIST AS YOUR SAVIOR AND LORD? He is our only Hope in Life and Death! Our Joy is found in Him.

Therefore if you don’t know Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord: I urge you today. Go to my page titled How to Be Saved by clicking on this link. There is nothing more important than this; because He is the way, the truth and the life. Therefore, I urge you to seek Him today.

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Love Divine, God Adopted Me Through Jesus Christ to be His Chosen Child 

In our modern world, we often hear those who say, “All we are Children of God.” But is that what the Word of God says?  Certainly, we are created in the “image of God.”  But does that mean we are all God-like?  I do not have to look any further than my own heart to know that is not true.  So, how was I created in His image?  He gave me the ability to reason, a discerning conscience, a heart filled with emotions, and a triune being.  I was created with a body, soul, and spirit.  Yet, because of sin, my spirit was one in search of a connection plug.  That was until I was born of the Spirit and my spirit came alive.  Additionally, having accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, I was adopted by Grace into the family of God.  Only then could I truly be called a Child of God. 

Adopted into the family of God as a joint heir with Jesus Christ.  Think about that! Furthermore, before I accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, my flesh had been bound like a slave to sin.  Once saved, the Holy Spirit entered me.  Even though it was He who called me, wooed me, and then sealed me by the Blood of Christ for eternity.  He also resides within me to transform me into the image of Christ.  No fear of condemnation, wrath, nor abandonment.  Adopted, sealed for eternity as His Chosen Child.  Beloved, protected, and guided every moment of every day.  I can call Him the most intimate name of “Abba” which is like My Dearly beloved Daddy.  What an amazing position to have! And not because I deserved it. I was the child least likely to be chosen.  Yet, chosen all the same.   

What Does Being Adopted Have to Do with Suffering? 

Notice the last sentence of verse 17 “heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him, that we may also be glorified together.”  Could the fullness of the Glory that is Christ shine so brightly were it not for His suffering on the cross?  Could anyone see His absolute magnificence and brilliant Glory otherwise. Were it not for our understanding the depths of His suffering to purchase our salvation?  What if our standing for Christ or our process of sanctification leads to suffering?  Why would we, so indebted to Him, not be willing to suffer for Him as He had for us?  Or what if our suffering is for the “good of the kingdom”?  What do I mean?  Sometimes as others watch our faith during moments of suffering, they come to want to know Our Secret, Our Jesus.    

Brother Lawrence was a Monk who could not find rest. That is until he, learned how to practice the presence of Jesus in his life.  This he did when all alone as the cook in the monastery. He began to recognize the presence of Jesus in the most mundane areas of his life.  Washing dishes, peeling potatoes and so on. Therein, he found joy.   Brother Lawrence wrote in “The Practice of the Presence of Jesus”  page 9  

AS for the miseries and sins I heard of daily in the world I was so far from wondering at them, that , on the contrary, I was surprised there were not much more, considering the malice sinners were capable of.  For my part I prayed for them, but knowing that God could remedy the mischiefs they did, when He pleased: I gave myself no farther trouble.    Brother Lawrence

 Concerning This notation: 

Joni Eareckson Tada added in her newest book, “The Practice of the Presence of Jesus page 23  

Never once was Jesus casual about human sin.  He always faced such darkness head-on, knowing ultimately that sin would be the death of him.  And finally, when the Man of Sorrows collapsed in the Garden of Gethsemane, he groaned, “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death….My Father, if it be possible, may this cup be taken from me” (Matthew 26:38-39)  

This cup of suffering was so dreadful it was enough to make Jesus recoil in horror: ‘Being in agony he prayed more earnestly; and the sweat became like great drops of blood falling down to the ground (Luke 22:44). As the Savior was shaken to the core, a foul odor must have wafted—Not around Jesus nose but around His heart.  Even then, hours before his crucifixion, human wickedness was beginning to crawl upon his spotless being.  In that garden, the Apple of the Father’s eye was beginning to turn brown with the rot of our wickedness.  (Not His wickedness for even then He surrendered fully to the Father’s will.  No glimpse or trace of sin within Him.  But a metaphor to describe the awful weight of sin as seen by God. And the awfulness of sin’s wretchedness toward God).  Jesus was about to drown in raw, liquid sin (willing to take my place) as all of God’s stored up rage against humankind exploded in a single direction—at Him on the hill of calvary. True God remedied our mischief, but, oh at such a cost! So I practice the presence of Jesus every time I take sin seriously and refuse to sweep small sins under the carpet of my conscience.  God forbid that I should ever call an offense against God tiny when it has caused my Savior unimaginable pain.  May I never minimize the sin that made him suffer. 

My prayer as well.  May I never minimize any sin or blemish of sin in my own heart, mind, or body.  For it is what nailed Him to that cross.  His love for me held Him there while all the wrath of God against sin was poured out upon Him.   

As Adopted Child: 

12 Therefore, brethren, we are debtors—not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh. Romans 8:12 (NKJV) 

What is the best way to honor God for all He has done for us?  To live a life surrendered to His will. Why? To live in such a manner as to point others to see His Glory and Grace.  In part, that is also living a life without grumbling.  As John Piper often says, “God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him.”  That is regardless of the circumstances surrounding us. If I truly believe He rewards those who diligently seek Him. And I believe, all things work together for my good. He only gives good gifts to His children. Then, why would I not have a steadfast, abiding joy during the bad seasons of my life.

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ,  just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before Him in love, having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will, to the praise of the glory of His grace, by which He made us accepted in the Beloved. 

In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of His grace which He made to abound toward us in all wisdom and prudence,  having made known to us the mystery of His will, according to His good pleasure which He purposed in Himself,  that in the dispensation of the fullness of the times He might gather together in one all things in Christ, both which are in heaven and which are on earth—in Him. In Him also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestined according to the purpose of Him who works all things according to the counsel of His will,  that we who first trusted in Christ should be to the praise of His glory.  Ephesians 1: 3-12 (NKJV

Knowing all this: how can we adopted children not say with Paul 

For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.  Romans 8: 18 NKJV 

But He goes on to explain: 

For the earnest expectation of the creation eagerly waits for the revealing of the sons of God. For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of Him who subjected it in hope; because the creation itself also will be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the glorious liberty of the children of God.  For we know that the whole creation groans and labors with birth pangs together until now. Romans 8:19-22 NKJV 

We were created to rule and reign over all the earth.  Providing for the animal kingdom.  Taking care of our world, so beautifully made by God. A task we have failed miserably at.   With the fall of Adam and Eve, everything changed.  Sin entered the world and infected all of creation.  Humankind is the species most feared by the animal kingdom and rightly so.  Just look around you at the dishevel humanity has made at caring for the planet earth and the animal kingdom.  Yet, the earth is awaiting eagerly for the revealing of the new earth without sin.  Yes, every part of the earth was subjected to futility.  But they are also subjected to the hope that all creation will be delivered from this bondage of corruption.  The earth also will be brought into glorious liberty from the bonds of sin.   

Furthermore, we the adopted children of God. 

Not only that, but we also who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, eagerly waiting for the adoption, the redemption of our body.  For we were saved in this hope, but hope that is seen is not hope; for why does one still hope for what he sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, we eagerly wait for it with perseverance.  Romans 8:23-25 NKJV 

We too groan.  How often while looking at my own failures do I long for that day. A day when finally my heart will fully look like Jesus.  The longer I walk in His Loving Pathway, I long more for His presence. Living every moment in his presence, I find I long to honor Him in all that I do and say.  Unfortunately, that is not always the case.  But thanks to His Mercy, He always gives me the opportunity to fix what I have wronged.  Or He takes what I have done. Then mixed with my repentant heart of love, He makes it into something so beautiful despite my bumbling it.   

What Do You Desire Most? 

“God is the highest good of the reasonable creature. The enjoyment of him is our proper; and is the only happiness with which our souls can be satisfied. To go to heaven, fully to enjoy God, is infinitely better than the most pleasant accommodations here. Better than fathers and mothers, husbands, wives, or children, or the company of any, or all earthly friends. These are but shadows; but the enjoyment of God is the substance. These are but scattered beams; but God is the sun. These are but streams; but God is the fountain. These are but drops, but God is the ocean.” ― Jonathan Edwards, The Works of Jonathan Edwards, Vol. 17: Sermons and Discourses, 1730-1733 

As we journey through this land, as His adopted child, my focus must be on Him.  He is the Glorious part of heaven.  His presence is more than anything else.  Yes, I long to be in His presence for all eternity.  He is the joy of heaven. Therefore, here on this earth awaiting the full adoption or redemption of the body; I have hope. Having already been adopted but awaiting my final trip home I eagerly await.  He must be the one whom I desire most.  If not, why would I ever desire to spend an eternity in His presence?  Heaven is not just the golden streets, magnificent beauty, and peace.  It is all that only because He is there.  So if I desire other pleasures more than His presence here, do I desire Him more than everything else? If not. How will I ever enjoy Him for all eternity as the greatest joy?

Besides all that As an Adopted Child, I have a mediator guiding me 

So, even if I bumble, pray for all the wrong things, head down the road the wrong way.  The Holy Spirit, knowing the will of God prays for me.  He knows precisely what to pray for so I might find joy in God Alone.   There is no hope for full joy apart from the presence of Jesus and God in our life.  He is like my own personal tutor for everything in this life.  After all, I am a princess.  Should I not have my own personal tutor teaching me everything and every courtesy of this life? 

 Likewise the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses. For we do not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. Now He who searches the hearts knows what the mind of the Spirit is, because He makes intercession for the saints according to the will of God.  Romans 8:26-27 NKJV 

Trust God, even when the answer was not the one you thought you wanted.  I cannot tell you how many times, He saved me from myself.  Sometimes we must say thank you for appeared to be unanswered prayers.

  

Finally,

TO GOD-MY LOVE, MY HOPE, MY JOY   

My life-so filled with hopes and dreams  

Lay shattered at Your feet  

So many tears, so many pains  

I laid before Your seat  

Can I look upon Your face of love  

And question what You’ve done?  

For You have been my only hope  

My only morning sun  

   

You’ve seen my heart when crushed with pain  

Your hands have held it tight  

When I have been so weak, so frail  

You’ve shown Your strength, Your might  

   

You’ve held me close within Your arms  

When darkness filled my night  

And when I could not see my way  

Your eyes, they gave me sight  

   

I lay my life within Your hands  

That You may heal my soul  

And keep my eyes upon You Lord  

That I may reach Your goal  

   

Shine forth Your grace, Your mercy Lord  

And let me be Your light  

That all may see Your eyes of love  

The blind, they might have sight  

   

Let not the sorrows, nor the pains  

Bring bitterness within  

And give me strength to walk this path  

Protect my heart from sin  

   

I lay my heart, my soul, my dreams  

Before Your throne of love  

I lift my eyes to You, My God  

And seek Your will above  

   

You are the only one I need  

To fill my heart with glee  

It is Your face, my one true love  

Tis all I need to see  

   

So lift me up and hold me close  

Reveal Your love divine  

That through the holes within my heart  

A world might see You shine  

   

And if the sorrows of my past  

Can touch a wayward one  

I thank you Lord for each dark path  

That lead them to Your son  

   

I praise You now from mountains high  

For each dark path I’ve trod  

Twas there I found Your heart, Your love  

Twas there I found You God  

   

What great and wondrous joy I know  

Because You are my king  

And though the path I cannot see  

My heart will trust and sing  

   

A song of praise unto You Lord  

Who knows what’s best for me  

You’ll hold my hand and lead me on  

In darkness, I can see  

   

Your love, Your help, Your guiding hand  

Is all I’ll ever need  

So hold me close unto Your path  

For this is all I plead  

   

I’ll skip with joy along this path  

Though darkness may surround  

Because I know You hold my hand  

My feet will ne’er touch ground  

   

I cannot fall outside Your love  

I cannot lose my way  

I’ll hold my broken dreams once more  

And see them real, one day  

   

A song of praise unto You Lord  

Who knows what’s best for me  

You’ll hold my hand and lead me on  

In darkness, I can see  

   

Your love, Your help, Your guiding hand  

Is all I’ll ever need  

So hold me close unto Your path  

For this is all I plead 

Effie Darlene Barba

DO YOU KNOW CHRIST AS YOUR SAVIOR AND LORD? He is our only Hope in Life and Death! Our Joy is found in Him.

Therefore if you don’t know Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord: I urge you today. Go to my page titled How to Be Saved by clicking on this link. There is nothing more important than this; because He is the way, the truth and the life. Therefore, I urge you to seek Him today.

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12 Steps to Know Joy and Reflect Glory in Jesus Today 

 Such a deep, dark moment one day over 40 years ago. Driving that day, my heart so heavy. I believed “there was no hope”.  The thought of suicide rose within me.  But what about the kids?  I could not leave them behind.  To face what?  Pain, sorrow, suffering and abuse?  No. If I were to take my own life, I would have to take theirs as well.  Unthinkable?  Yes.  But a thought anyway.  Did despair mean I was never saved?  No. I was certain of my salvation long before as a child of 5.  What I was not certain of: how to live out this life in Christ I had been given.  God was working throughout my life to transform my life.  I felt I had failed Him and everyone else around me.  Yet, He showed me these 12 Steps to Know Joy and Reflect His Glory. 

Paul meticulously laid forth the gospel in the book of Romans.  With a beautiful apologetics style, he spoke THE Truth.  At the same time, he tore down false beliefs taught rampantly in the Roman Churches.  Much of which continues to this day in Rome.  He brought light into the darkness. Humanity cannot ever live a life on their own power sufficiently holy to be with a Holy God.  The sheer arrogance and pride to think one can is in itself sin.  If no one can save themselves, then how?  Only through faith in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior.  Salvation from the beginning was faith in His coming and now in His having finished the work on Calvary at such a high cost to Himself.  One Love, so unimaginable, we can hardly comprehend it.   But therein also lies the secret of how to live this life with Joy, reflecting Him. 

Know Joy in this Life? 

Perhaps I would have told you that dark day so long ago, knowing joy was impossible.  Yet, my heart knew there was something missing.   It needed to learn how to live in Christ.  In Romans 7, Paul discussed the struggle within our hearts.  A struggle between the new creation in Christ and the old sin nature which attempts to take over our thoughts leading to our actions.  Perhaps I would have told you a life filled with joy was impossible; but I found that day a determination to seek and discover it.  The Bible spoke of it. I desperately needed to know how to find it.  That is when I finally surrendered to the Holy Spirit to guide me.  After all, I was not doing a very good job on my own.  Surrendering before, I had seen glimpses of it; but somehow had lost the joy along the way. 

Too ashamed of my own failures, I wanted to just hide from God’s eyes, as if I could, instead of running into His presence.  The truth is quite the opposite.  We are to run into His arms of love.  Romans 8:1 tells us that “There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus”.  Meaning, if the Perfect, Righteous, Holy, Just God had forgiven me, who was I not to?  What foolish pedestal had I placed myself on to not forgive what He had paid the price for and had forgiven.  As a Believer in Jesus Christ, there is no sin in my life, He has not placed under the blood of Christ for me.  I am cloaked in the righteousness of Jesus Christ.  Therefore, I am His.  My guilt: proof of my salvation and failure to grasp the fullness of my salvation at the same time.   

A Knew Beginning, Step 1 to Know Joy 

You will make known to me the way of life; 

In Your presence is fullness of joy; 

In Your right hand there are pleasures forever.  Psalm 16:11 NASB 

So, fullness of joy is in His Presence.  How is anyone able to be in His presence?  By accepting salvation offered by Jesus Christ.  As Jesus prayed,  

this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent. I glorified You on the earth by accomplishing the work which You have given Me to do. And now You, Father, glorify Me together with Yourself, with the glory which I had with You before the world existed.  John 17: 3-5 NASB 

And as Jesus said,  

“I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father except through Me. Oneness with the Father If you had known Me, you would have known My Father also; from now on you know Him, and have seen Him.” Philip *said to Him, “Lord, show us the Father, and it is enough for us.” Jesus *said to him, “Have I been with you for so long a time, and yet you have not come to know Me, Philip? The one who has seen Me has seen the Father; how can you say, ‘Show us the Father’? Do you not believe that I am in the Father, and the Father is in Me? The words that I say to you I do not speak on My own, but the Father, as He remains in Me, does His works.  Believe Me that I am in the Father and the Father is in Me. John 14:6-11 NASB 

So, step #1 to know Joy is Accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior—Only through knowing Him can you be in the presence of God the Father where there is joy overflowing.   

Consider the Flesh dead: Step #2 to know Joy in Jesus 

So then, brothers and sisters, we are under obligation, not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh—  for if you are living in accord with the flesh, you are going to die; but if by the Spirit you are putting to death the deeds of the body, you will live  Romans 8:12-13 NASB 

Might sound like works to maintain salvation, but that is not what Paul is saying here.  He had just completed discussing our eternal position being secure in Jesus Christ.  And will go further into this.  So, what does he mean that if you are living in accord with the flesh, you are going to die? Is he referring to those who do not know Christ?  I do not think so as he has been addressing believers at this point in this scripture.  Sometimes, it is that a Christian who persistently walks away from Christ and persists in sin, they may die to this world.   

If anyone sees his brother or sister committing a sin not leading to death, he shall ask and God will, for him, give life to those who commit sin not leading to death. There is sin leading to death; I am not saying that he should ask about that. All unrighteousness is sin, and there is sin not leading to death. I John 5:16-17 NASB 

Note:  John wrote sees his brother or sister.  To he is referring to a Christian sinning a sin unto death.  This is physical death.   

“John illustrates praying according to God’s will with the specific example of the “sin leading to death.” Such a sin could be any premeditated and unconfessed sin that causes the Lord to determine to end a believer’s life. It is not one particular sin like homosexuality or lying, but whatever sin is the final one in the tolerance of God. Failure to repent of and forsake sin may eventually lead to physical death as a judgment of God (Acts 5:1–11; 1 Cor. 5:5; 11:30).”1 MacArthur, John; NASB MacArthur Study Bible, 2nd Edition Copyright © 1997, 2006, 2019 by Thomas Nelson., noted on page 2679

Other Things That Die: Joy and Feeling God’s Presence

Or it can be they lose the joy of their salvation, as did David.  But it was restored, though he did watch his own sins play out in his sons later and must have seen that as painful.  Yet, God remained his faithful refuge through it all.   Watching his sons’ sin was a natural consequence to how he taught them and not necessarily a direct punishment from God.  David’s sins were forgiven the moment he confessed them to be cast as far as the east is from the west and for God that is very far.   

Do not cast me away from Your presence, 

And do not take Your Holy Spirit from me. 

Restore to me the joy of Your salvation, 

And sustain me with a willing spirit. 

Then I will teach wrongdoers Your ways, 

And sinners will be converted to You.  Psalm 51:11-13 NASB 

Or it may be that you no longer feel the presence of God in your daily lives.  Life becomes filled with anxiety, stress, and depression as had mine.  But thanks be to God, He restores you and shows you the way to perfect joy.  Step #2 to Know Joy in Christ, turn from your sins and repent.   

But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh in regard to its lusts. Romans 13:14 NASB 

In other words,  “JUST STOP IT” in His power.  Just ask Him and He will give you the strength to overcome.   

Rejoice and Rest in His presence:  Step #3 to Know Joy 

Let the word of Christ richly dwell within you, with all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another with psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, singing with thankfulness in your hearts to God.  Colossians 3:16 NASB 

In other words, surround yourself in Him.  Be discerning what you hear, watch, and spend your time meditating own.  It will lead you closer or farther away from His presence.  

Know Him through His Word:  Step #4 to Know Joy in Jesus 

But his delight is in the Law of the Lord, 

And on His Law he meditates day and night.  Psalm 1:2 NASB 

You cannot know Him if you do not read His Word, His love letters to you.  The more you know Him, the greater your joy.   

Your words were found and I ate them,And Your words became a joy to me and the delight of my heart;For I have been called by Your name, Lord God of armies.  Jeremiah 15:16 NASB 

While sin separates us from feeling His presence, His word keeps us from sin.  

I have treasured Your word in my heart, So that I may not sin against You. Psalm 119:11 NASB 

Prayer: step 5 to know Joy in Jesus Christ 

“Pray that you do not come into temptation.”  Luke 22:40 

We are to pray without ceasing.  That means talk to Him throughout the day.  Fill your heart and mind with His constant presence.  If your mind is like mine it is unceasing in its thoughts.  Why not make Him a conscious part of those thoughts! 

Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus. I Thessalonians 5:16-18 NASB 

Which brings us to step #6: Never forget Your Position as God’s Adopted Child 

For all who are being led by the Spirit of God, these are sons and daughters of God. For you have not received a spirit of slavery leading to fear again, but you have received a spirit of adoption as sons and daughters by which we cry out, “Abba!Father!” The Spirit Himself testifies with our spirit that we are children of God,  and if children, heirs also, heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him so that we may also be glorified with Him. Romans 8:14-17 NASB 

Jesus said, “that they may know you love them, as you have loved me.”  What an amazing thought that should bring joy 

Rejoicing:  Step #7 to Know Joy 

If you truly believe God IS all powerful, all seeing, and all knowing plus you know He rewards those who diligently seek Him; why are you not rejoicing in all things?  He knows what is best for me.  Only He knows how He can use my suffering for the good of the kingdom and my good.   

The Spirit Himself testifies with our spirit that we are children of God,  and if children, heirs also, heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him so that we may also be glorified with Him.  For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory that is to be revealed to us.  For the eagerly awaiting creation waits for the revealing of the sons and daughters of God. Romans 8:16-19 NASB 

Know the Holy Spirit Within You is Working to Sanctify You:  Step #8 to Know Joy 

Whatever things are going on around you and in you to create anxiety. Relax. Don’t fall for it. Know the Holy Spirit is working to transform you into the image of Jesus Christ. 

And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters; and these whom He predestined, He also called; and these whom He called, He also justified; and these whom He justified, He also glorified.  Romans 8:28-30  NASB 

With the Power of the Holy Spirit in you, we will look at some specific commandments as Steps 9,10, and 11 to Know Joy

Step 9: 

Flee sexual immorality. Every other sin that a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.  I Corinthians 6;18 NASB 

Step 10 to Know Joy 

And do not get drunk with wine, in which there is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit,  Ephesians 5:18 NASB 

Step 11 to Know Joy 

Beloved, I urge you as foreigners and strangers to abstain from fleshly lusts, which wage war against the soul.  1 Peter 2:11 

Step 12 to know Joy and Glorify God 

And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.  Colossians 3:17 KJV 

If any man speak, let him speak as the oracles of God; if any man minister, let him do it as of the ability which God giveth: that God in all things may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom be praise and dominion for ever and ever. Amen.  I Peter 4:11 KJV 

So, there you have it.  12 steps to always experience and know joy in Jesus throughout this journey.  I was a late learner, but thank God, He is a patient teacher.  

DO YOU KNOW CHRIST AS YOUR SAVIOR AND LORD? He is our only Hope in Life and Death! Our Joy is found in Him.

Therefore if you don’t know Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord: I urge you today. Go to my page titled How to Be Saved by clicking on this link. There is nothing more important than this; because He is the way, the truth and the life. Therefore, I urge you to seek Him today.

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