In our modern world, we often hear those who say, “All we are Children of God.” But is that what the Word of God says? Certainly, we are created in the “image of God.” But does that mean we are all God-like? I do not have to look any further than my own heart to know that is not true. So, how was I created in His image? He gave me the ability to reason, a discerning conscience, a heart filled with emotions, and a triune being. I was created with a body, soul, and spirit. Yet, because of sin, my spirit was one in search of a connection plug. That was until I was born of the Spirit and my spirit came alive. Additionally, having accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, I was adopted by Grace into the family of God. Only then could I truly be called a Child of God.
Adopted into the family of God as a joint heir with Jesus Christ. Think about that! Furthermore, before I accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, my flesh had been bound like a slave to sin. Once saved, the Holy Spirit entered me. Even though it was He who called me, wooed me, and then sealed me by the Blood of Christ for eternity. He also resides within me to transform me into the image of Christ. No fear of condemnation, wrath, nor abandonment. Adopted, sealed for eternity as His Chosen Child. Beloved, protected, and guided every moment of every day. I can call Him the most intimate name of “Abba” which is like My Dearly beloved Daddy. What an amazing position to have! And not because I deserved it. I was the child least likely to be chosen. Yet, chosen all the same.
What Does Being Adopted Have to Do with Suffering?
Notice the last sentence of verse 17 “heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him, that we may also be glorified together.” Could the fullness of the Glory that is Christ shine so brightly were it not for His suffering on the cross? Could anyone see His absolute magnificence and brilliant Glory otherwise. Were it not for our understanding the depths of His suffering to purchase our salvation? What if our standing for Christ or our process of sanctification leads to suffering? Why would we, so indebted to Him, not be willing to suffer for Him as He had for us? Or what if our suffering is for the “good of the kingdom”? What do I mean? Sometimes as others watch our faith during moments of suffering, they come to want to know Our Secret, Our Jesus.
Brother Lawrence was a Monk who could not find rest. That is until he, learned how to practice the presence of Jesus in his life. This he did when all alone as the cook in the monastery. He began to recognize the presence of Jesus in the most mundane areas of his life. Washing dishes, peeling potatoes and so on. Therein, he found joy. Brother Lawrence wrote in “The Practice of the Presence of Jesus” page 9
AS for the miseries and sins I heard of daily in the world I was so far from wondering at them, that , on the contrary, I was surprised there were not much more, considering the malice sinners were capable of. For my part I prayed for them, but knowing that God could remedy the mischiefs they did, when He pleased: I gave myself no farther trouble. Brother Lawrence
Concerning This notation:
Joni Eareckson Tada added in her newest book, “The Practice of the Presence of Jesus page 23
Never once was Jesus casual about human sin. He always faced such darkness head-on, knowing ultimately that sin would be the death of him. And finally, when the Man of Sorrows collapsed in the Garden of Gethsemane, he groaned, “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death….My Father, if it be possible, may this cup be taken from me” (Matthew 26:38-39)
This cup of suffering was so dreadful it was enough to make Jesus recoil in horror: ‘Being in agony he prayed more earnestly; and the sweat became like great drops of blood falling down to the ground (Luke 22:44). As the Savior was shaken to the core, a foul odor must have wafted—Not around Jesus nose but around His heart. Even then, hours before his crucifixion, human wickedness was beginning to crawl upon his spotless being. In that garden, the Apple of the Father’s eye was beginning to turn brown with the rot of our wickedness. (Not His wickedness for even then He surrendered fully to the Father’s will. No glimpse or trace of sin within Him. But a metaphor to describe the awful weight of sin as seen by God. And the awfulness of sin’s wretchedness toward God). Jesus was about to drown in raw, liquid sin (willing to take my place) as all of God’s stored up rage against humankind exploded in a single direction—at Him on the hill of calvary. True God remedied our mischief, but, oh at such a cost! So I practice the presence of Jesus every time I take sin seriously and refuse to sweep small sins under the carpet of my conscience. God forbid that I should ever call an offense against God tiny when it has caused my Savior unimaginable pain. May I never minimize the sin that made him suffer.
My prayer as well. May I never minimize any sin or blemish of sin in my own heart, mind, or body. For it is what nailed Him to that cross. His love for me held Him there while all the wrath of God against sin was poured out upon Him.
As Adopted Child:
12 Therefore, brethren, we are debtors—not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh. Romans 8:12 (NKJV)
What is the best way to honor God for all He has done for us? To live a life surrendered to His will. Why? To live in such a manner as to point others to see His Glory and Grace. In part, that is also living a life without grumbling. As John Piper often says, “God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him.” That is regardless of the circumstances surrounding us. If I truly believe He rewards those who diligently seek Him. And I believe, all things work together for my good. He only gives good gifts to His children. Then, why would I not have a steadfast, abiding joy during the bad seasons of my life.
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ, just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before Him in love, having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will, to the praise of the glory of His grace, by which He made us accepted in the Beloved.
In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of His grace which He made to abound toward us in all wisdom and prudence, having made known to us the mystery of His will, according to His good pleasure which He purposed in Himself, that in the dispensation of the fullness of the times He might gather together in one all things in Christ, both which are in heaven and which are on earth—in Him. In Him also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestined according to the purpose of Him who works all things according to the counsel of His will, that we who first trusted in Christ should be to the praise of His glory. Ephesians 1: 3-12 (NKJV
Knowing all this: how can we adopted children not say with Paul
For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. Romans 8: 18 NKJV
But He goes on to explain:
For the earnest expectation of the creation eagerly waits for the revealing of the sons of God. For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of Him who subjected it in hope; because the creation itself also will be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the glorious liberty of the children of God. For we know that the whole creation groans and labors with birth pangs together until now. Romans 8:19-22 NKJV
We were created to rule and reign over all the earth. Providing for the animal kingdom. Taking care of our world, so beautifully made by God. A task we have failed miserably at. With the fall of Adam and Eve, everything changed. Sin entered the world and infected all of creation. Humankind is the species most feared by the animal kingdom and rightly so. Just look around you at the dishevel humanity has made at caring for the planet earth and the animal kingdom. Yet, the earth is awaiting eagerly for the revealing of the new earth without sin. Yes, every part of the earth was subjected to futility. But they are also subjected to the hope that all creation will be delivered from this bondage of corruption. The earth also will be brought into glorious liberty from the bonds of sin.
Furthermore, we the adopted children of God.
Not only that, but we also who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, eagerly waiting for the adoption, the redemption of our body. For we were saved in this hope, but hope that is seen is not hope; for why does one still hope for what he sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, we eagerly wait for it with perseverance. Romans 8:23-25 NKJV
We too groan. How often while looking at my own failures do I long for that day. A day when finally my heart will fully look like Jesus. The longer I walk in His Loving Pathway, I long more for His presence. Living every moment in his presence, I find I long to honor Him in all that I do and say. Unfortunately, that is not always the case. But thanks to His Mercy, He always gives me the opportunity to fix what I have wronged. Or He takes what I have done. Then mixed with my repentant heart of love, He makes it into something so beautiful despite my bumbling it.
What Do You Desire Most?
“God is the highest good of the reasonable creature. The enjoyment of him is our proper; and is the only happiness with which our souls can be satisfied. To go to heaven, fully to enjoy God, is infinitely better than the most pleasant accommodations here. Better than fathers and mothers, husbands, wives, or children, or the company of any, or all earthly friends. These are but shadows; but the enjoyment of God is the substance. These are but scattered beams; but God is the sun. These are but streams; but God is the fountain. These are but drops, but God is the ocean.” ― Jonathan Edwards, The Works of Jonathan Edwards, Vol. 17: Sermons and Discourses, 1730-1733
As we journey through this land, as His adopted child, my focus must be on Him. He is the Glorious part of heaven. His presence is more than anything else. Yes, I long to be in His presence for all eternity. He is the joy of heaven. Therefore, here on this earth awaiting the full adoption or redemption of the body; I have hope. Having already been adopted but awaiting my final trip home I eagerly await. He must be the one whom I desire most. If not, why would I ever desire to spend an eternity in His presence? Heaven is not just the golden streets, magnificent beauty, and peace. It is all that only because He is there. So if I desire other pleasures more than His presence here, do I desire Him more than everything else? If not. How will I ever enjoy Him for all eternity as the greatest joy?
Besides all that As an Adopted Child, I have a mediator guiding me
So, even if I bumble, pray for all the wrong things, head down the road the wrong way. The Holy Spirit, knowing the will of God prays for me. He knows precisely what to pray for so I might find joy in God Alone. There is no hope for full joy apart from the presence of Jesus and God in our life. He is like my own personal tutor for everything in this life. After all, I am a princess. Should I not have my own personal tutor teaching me everything and every courtesy of this life?
Likewise the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses. For we do not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. Now He who searches the hearts knows what the mind of the Spirit is, because He makes intercession for the saints according to the will of God. Romans 8:26-27 NKJV
Trust God, even when the answer was not the one you thought you wanted. I cannot tell you how many times, He saved me from myself. Sometimes we must say thank you for appeared to be unanswered prayers.
Finally,
TO GOD-MY LOVE, MY HOPE, MY JOY
My life-so filled with hopes and dreams
Lay shattered at Your feet
So many tears, so many pains
I laid before Your seat
Can I look upon Your face of love
And question what You’ve done?
For You have been my only hope
My only morning sun
You’ve seen my heart when crushed with pain
Your hands have held it tight
When I have been so weak, so frail
You’ve shown Your strength, Your might
You’ve held me close within Your arms
When darkness filled my night
And when I could not see my way
Your eyes, they gave me sight
I lay my life within Your hands
That You may heal my soul
And keep my eyes upon You Lord
That I may reach Your goal
Shine forth Your grace, Your mercy Lord
And let me be Your light
That all may see Your eyes of love
The blind, they might have sight
Let not the sorrows, nor the pains
Bring bitterness within
And give me strength to walk this path
Protect my heart from sin
I lay my heart, my soul, my dreams
Before Your throne of love
I lift my eyes to You, My God
And seek Your will above
You are the only one I need
To fill my heart with glee
It is Your face, my one true love
Tis all I need to see
So lift me up and hold me close
Reveal Your love divine
That through the holes within my heart
A world might see You shine
And if the sorrows of my past
Can touch a wayward one
I thank you Lord for each dark path
That lead them to Your son
I praise You now from mountains high
For each dark path I’ve trod
Twas there I found Your heart, Your love
Twas there I found You God
What great and wondrous joy I know
Because You are my king
And though the path I cannot see
My heart will trust and sing
A song of praise unto You Lord
Who knows what’s best for me
You’ll hold my hand and lead me on
In darkness, I can see
Your love, Your help, Your guiding hand
Is all I’ll ever need
So hold me close unto Your path
For this is all I plead
I’ll skip with joy along this path
Though darkness may surround
Because I know You hold my hand
My feet will ne’er touch ground
I cannot fall outside Your love
I cannot lose my way
I’ll hold my broken dreams once more
And see them real, one day
A song of praise unto You Lord
Who knows what’s best for me
You’ll hold my hand and lead me on
In darkness, I can see
Your love, Your help, Your guiding hand
Is all I’ll ever need
So hold me close unto Your path
For this is all I plead
Effie Darlene Barba
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