How to Know Happiness Always In all Things ⋆ Effie Darlene Barba

Last Sunday, Keith Simon from the Crossing Church in Colombia Mo spoke of the truth that Jesus was the happiest person of all and referred to the scripture in Hebrews 1. Although I have read that many times in the past, it had never struck me as powerfully as it did when he was preaching about it. Funny how the scripture can be brought alive like that. So, I do recommend you watching his sermon. https://www.thecrossingchurch.com/media-feeds/how-you-can-be-sure-youll-never-be-happy-and-what-you-can-do-about-it/ I mean I knew the truth that God is our only source of true happiness. In Him is fullness of joy. John Piper preaches Christian Hedonism which is defined as the pursuit of pleasure. Philosophy of hedonism is defined as the ethical theory that pleasure (in the sense of the satisfaction of desires) is the highest good and proper aim of human life.

So how does happiness and the pursuit of pleasure fit in with who we are as Christians? So many would save that is impossible. After all, are we not to take up our cross daily to follow Jesus? How can we know happiness while at the same time carrying a cross? The burdens and sorrows that we face daily refute any hope of happiness. How do we satisfy our desires and pursue pleasures in a world filled with such trials? But that is because we are confused by thinking our pleasures and desires can only be fulfilled by worldly pleasures.

The book of Ecclesiastes refutes that idea thoroughly. Solomon wrote, “Vanity of Vanities, all is vanity” when pursuing every form of worldly pleasure from pursuing justice to holding position, power, money, human wisdom or seeking sexual fulfillment only to conclude: Fear God and keep His commandments, For this is man’s all. (Ecclesiastes 12:13)

Where is True Happiness Found?

My Grandchildren seem to believe that happiness is found in a carefree pursuit of “games, games, and more games” with no responsibility, no chores, nor school. Yet, on those rare days that they get this, I have noticed that rather than happy they are more and more frustrated, irritable, and angry as the days wears on. But isn’t that true of us as well? So, like Solomon we find, what we thought was pursuing pleasure and happiness are all vanity and vexation of spirit. In the end there is no lasting joy or happiness there.

On the contrary. “the joy of the Lord is our strength” as Nehemiah 8:10 says. Let us look at that in context.

Then the children of Israel who had returned from the captivity ate together with all who had separated themselves from the filth^[a] of the nations of the land in order to seek the Lord God of Israel. ²²And they kept the Feast of Unleavened Bread seven days with joy; for the Lord made them joyful. Ezra 6:21-22

But What about God’s Laws?

So, well and good. Of course they were happy. God had just returned them from captivity; but, life would have to go on at some point. The labors of life as they rebuilt the wall and the temple. All the temptations and frustrations society brings as well, many of which I detail in the book “When God Commanded Build that Wall” as a study in Nehemiah.

So, briefly back to the children of Israel’s story. Later, the Levites read the law to the people, who initially worshipped God, then began to weep. Did they weep because they knew of their own inadequacies to fulfill the law? Or was it the fact God had rules, something our modern society balks at. After all, if I am to pursue all my desires and pleasures, what place do societal rules play? And God’s rules? Won’t those mere restrict my pleasure? But this was God’s response through Nehemiah.

“This day is holy to the Lord your God; do not mourn nor weep.” For all the people wept, when they heard the words of the Law. Then he said to them, “Go your way, eat the fat, drink the sweet, and send portions to those for whom nothing is prepared; for this day is holy to our Lord. Do not sorrow, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.” (Nehemiah 8: 9-10)

So, Back to Us and how to know Happiness Always

Jesus in His prayer for us as recorded in John 17 says:

these things I speak in the world, that they may have My joy fulfilled in themselves. ¹⁴I have given them Your word; and the world has hated them because they are not of the world, just as I am not of the world. ¹⁵I do not pray that You should take them out of the world, but that You should keep them from the evil one. ¹⁶They are not of the world, just as I am not of the world. ¹⁷Sanctify^[i] them by Your truth.

Our Joy is fulfilled in what? Knowing Him. Even if the world hates us. Our joy is fulfilled in Him, His Word, and the truth that He is my greatest treasure. But is He truly joyous? If we are to have His joy, what kind of joy is that?

Hebrews 1: 8-9

But to the Son He says: “Your throne, O God, is forever and ever;
A ^[f]scepter of righteousness is the scepter of Your kingdom.
⁹You have loved righteousness and hated lawlessness;
Therefore God, Your God, has anointed You
With the oil of gladness more than Your companions.”

Therein lies a key. Jesus Christ was given the oil of gladness. His happiness exceeds all others. But for what was He anointed this? A scepter of righteousness, for He loved righteousness and hated lawlessness.”

So, to know true Happiness always begins not with a lawless pursuit of pleasure; rather to love God first. He is the treasure, the true happiness and joy our hearts need to fulfill every desire of our heart. Only in Him.

Happiness and True Joy

In his prayer to the Ephesians, Paul wrote:

⁹For this reason we also, since the day we heard it, do not cease to pray for you, and to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding; ¹⁰that you may walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God; ¹¹strengthened with all might, according to His glorious power, for all patience and longsuffering with joy; ¹²giving thanks to the Father who has qualified us to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in the light. ¹³He has delivered us from the power of darkness and ^[c]conveyed us into the kingdom of the Son of His love, ¹⁴in whom we have redemption ^[d]through His blood, the forgiveness of sins. Colossians 1

Note—longsuffering with joy means even in suffering, we are filled with patience and joy giving thanks to the Father for His unfailing Grace, Love, and because He has already placed “conveyed us in the kingdom of the Son of His love. My address has changed, I am merely awaiting the final move. Meanwhile how to hold fast and know this joy here and now is through being filled with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understand. WE are to walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God. Therein, we are strengthened with all might according to His Glorious Power for al patience and longsuffering with joy. He is the happiness and joy we seek always and forever more.

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