Throughout the Bible, God provides us with similes to attempt to describe for us this love that He has for us. These similes pale in comparison (particularly since sin has tainted the true meaning of either); but are used in an attempt to allow us to understand even minutely how much He loves us. He frequently refers to His love for us as a husband for His bride or as a Father for His Son. Both forms of love are distinct with their own characteristics; yet, each in their perfect form displays a part of the love God would have for us.
There is no doubt that man searches for a love that completes him. He searches for that one soul-mate which will understand him for himself and thereby allow him to become inspired to do more and be more than he has ever imagined himself to be. We desire that love to be eternal and to never betray us in anyway. This is demonstrated in so many love songs and romantic novels. We applaud the love that overcomes every obstacle to be with the beloved. We desire a love that would overlook our frailties and see us for the one we could become at our highest level of performance and who is willing to do whatever it takes to help us reach our fullest potential. Yet, in this we are seeing a “need-love”. We do not need a love that will only accept us where we are; but rather, will guide us to be the best we can be.
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We need one who will forgive all; yet, at the same time not accept our ugliness of spirit as being the best that we can be. One who will continue to love and at the same time will gently guide us to be better than we were so that our beauty may become more gloriously seen. It is precisely that kind of love which Christ has demonstrated to his Church, his beloved bride.

